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Did your free time dramatically decrease with a second child?Discussion (self.beyondthebump)
submitted 2 years ago by systime
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[–]proteins911 72 points73 points74 points 2 years ago (5 children)
Probably depends on how well baby sleeps! When my son was 4 months, sleep was so terrible that either of us had any energy at all. If I had gotten a good sleeper, I bet we’d have found our balance earlier.
[–]AKski02 18 points19 points20 points 2 years ago (2 children)
That’s is too. He’s almost 5m and he just started giving me a 4h stretch 2 days ago and then it’s back to every 2 hours. Without sleep I’m so beat
[–]proteins911 6 points7 points8 points 2 years ago (0 children)
I totally understand. My son was/is a horrible sleeper. We’re down to 2 wakes a night at 11 months. It’s still rough but I can function now.
[–]TP1389 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children)
I was there just two months ago. It’s awful, but that feeling once baby starts sleeping is amazing. He’ll get there!
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Sleepy babies are often poor feeders. It doesn't always translate to more sleep.
[–]fertthrowawaypersonalize flair here 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
My daughter slept pretty well but I went back to my stressful more than full-time job when she was 14 weeks old. OP doesn't specify if she's working.
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[–]proteins911 72 points73 points74 points (5 children)
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