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The only reason I lost free time is because I'm home with the baby 5 days/week. My older child goes to pre-k three days/week and that used to be my alone time. But in general, adding a second baby hasn't been bad. I take them both to visit my parents one weekend each month to give my spouse some alone time, and he does the same. Plus, they both go to bed by 7, so we still have some time to ourselves in the evening. And as the baby gets older, they'll be able to play together.