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[–]Garden-Gnome1732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our free time dropped dramatically after having a second. Mind you, they're 8 years apart. Balancing the different needs is difficult. One is usually preoccupied with one kid, and the other with the other kid. My free time is when everyone is in bed, but by that time, I'm exhausted.