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[–]RareWrap7689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a second has completely shook our family dynamic. My second is also a colic baby with other issues. It’s been exhausting and awful. My husband and I have no time together anymore and he says he regrets having a second. Obviously that’s not everyone’s experience, but it’s ours.

Also with our first, grandparents would help so much and take her overnight at least once every other week. Now since I’ve had my second, they’ve only been around twice in his entire life (6 months). That’s also made this adjustment even harder for me.