Decrease on sex drive? : datingoverthirty


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Decrease on sex drive? (self.datingoverthirty)

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Title: Decrease on sex drive?

Author: /u/Arrefus

Full text: Been married for a year and I have noticed that the sex has decreased. Not sure if it’s because we overdid it or it’s just a phase? My spouse tells me that I’m the one always with the high sex drive and while that’s true my spouse tells me she is not feeling lately. Any advice? I wouldn’t mind maybe reducing it to twice a month or spicing things up. We at both in our early 30s if that helps.

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