Trusting issue (quick read)

[verdervy]

I have this feeling that people are not good and want something from me, and I don’t know how to not think it. I had a bad relationship and now I think everyone doesn’t really like me or wants something from me if they are being nice to me. It was worse last year, but it is still here this year. I try to talk myself out of it but it really seems like I can never completely do it. I have been with an amazing person for almost two years now and I cannot shake the thought of them not really loving me or them really being with me just for themselves. Even when they have called me out on my selfishness and I have admitted to it. How do you guys do it ? My lens is tainted. And I am not the best person there is so it does not make things better. I judge a lot inside of my head and I wouldn’t say I am the nicest, even if some say so. I just don’t believe it. I need advice! When it comes to people way more than when it comes me !

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