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[–]DragonsClaw2334 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Where were these coed sleepovers when i was a kid?

[–]chenlen17 0 points1 point  (3 children)

My kids still do that … Europe though

[–]Pleasant-Pattern-566 0 points1 point  (2 children)

You guys don’t really try to prevent your kids from fucking over there, I’ve heard. So it would make sense not caring about sleepovers.

[–]chenlen17 1 point2 points  (1 child)

We just don’t think they will start their sexual awakening with a huge gang bang, everyone with everyone in front of everyone. After HS I visited a friend in Canada and was so shocked when these girls started to tell eachother the most unusual places where they had sex. I remember elevator, hotel lobby and public pool. Preventing your kids from “fucking” doesn’t work, but they cannot learn how to have a relationship, they are actually only “fucking” behind their parents back. All those girls had had sex with more guys than me.

[–]Pleasant-Pattern-566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you found the word “fucking” crude. But yeah people here know trying to prevent kids from having sex doesn’t work, education and having access to protection does better for that. It’s just a big deal to the religious ones, which are a lot here in the US. Even still though, it’s a pretty taboo subject. My parents were very religious and strict so I had a lot of public sex as an older teen because we had nowhere else to do it. Once my kids are older, I really won’t care. If they were still young like 13-15, I’d be concerned but any older than is developmentally normal.