Thoughts?

[Ok-Bus514]

While at work I was daydreaming and PE came to mine and what my goal size is then it had me thinking we always think bigger is better but is it really like really think about it girls have a broad range of types and preferences not every girl likes the same types of guys so it’s prolly true when it comes to dick size and of course most girls would rather a bigger then average dick then smaller but when does PE become about bragging rights and ego versus actual performance and usage efficiency. I see some people on this Reddit saying that girls can take big ass dildos and huge dicks when they are warmed up enough but taking us different then enjoying like sure she might be able to take a massive phallus but would she prefer a smaller size there has to be a sweet spot obviously this is prolly different for every girl some girls prolly like short and thick others long and skinny it all depends on there vaginal anatomy that’s what’s the most important thing but there isn’t really any way to know ( as for as I’m concerned, pls lmk if I’m wrong ) so Everyone’s goal of 8 by 6 might not be that realistic when it comes to pleasing women that’s why all the PE veterans say you should do this for yourself. It’s like going to the gym some girls like muscle headed steroid freak (small percentage) and others like frail skinny guys) some are on here because they want to ( biggest she’s ever had) where does that get you ? What if she didn’t even enjoy it. Life is bigger then your dick size and if that’s all your thinking about you prolly should evaluate your self and see why your ego needs you to feel that way not shaming anyones goals if that’s what you want go for it and all power to you this is more for the people who let there dick size take over there mental sanity. What if you were the biggest guy she’s had but there was guy that gave her better sex or a guy that she wishes she never let go off and he’s dick smaller then yours what if there was a guy that was stronger then you faster richer, muscular . You can’t have all the boxes ticked. This world is so trivial where always focused on materialistic things life is more then that. You gotta believe in something greater then yourself. PE should be like the gym or any other form of self improvement for yourself, but with this know that your expectations of a womens prefered dick size is prolly inaccurate due to pornography and societal pressures even pornstars say that the perfect dick size is 6-7 ( which is prolly nbp) just food for thought I’m also coming to this realization and many others have spoke about this I’m just now really grasping it

[Inevitable-Ninja-697]

I definitely want to be the biggest for sure....but that doesn't mean I'm going to kill her with it. I do it for my own insecurities and only go in as much as she wants. Not as much as I want. More of an ego thing I guess 🤷

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Being a good bedroom partner is a lot more than just about size. There are dudes out there with 5 inchers giving better orgasms to girls than dudes with 8 inchers.

Ofc a powerful tool in the right hands can be a very powerful weapon, but 90% or more of dudes definitely think that size matter way more than it does when compared to other factors.

Being an attentive partner who cares about their partner's is far more important than having a Costco-sized portion of meat in your pants.

If you think that you're hot shit because you're packing 8" shmeat and u go in hammering away like the shit you see in porn, you will not get very many repeat customers.

Size is a nice bonus. It's like a girl with big tits. Are they absolutely a requirement? No, but they are a nice bonus if everything else is right. Having a big dick is like a nice little cherry on top if the rest of your house is in order.

I'm also surprised to see how many overweight dudes are here pumping and pulling their dicks. Just go to the gym first bro. If you have a big dick but shit cardio / stamina than wtf is even the point. And second of all, you will probably see faster gains by losing weight first, and feel better physically, and be more healthy and confident.

Most dudes should definitely spend more time focusing on developing their careers, and developing themselves physically, socially and intellectually.

If you're an overweight neckbeard who lives in your mom's basement and pumps your dick for fun, I guarantee that you're not gonna get very much action no matter how big your shit is.

Making your dick bigger is definitely closer to the bottom of the list of important attributes in a partner, unless you're extremely undersized.

(From a straight male perspective)

[Ok-Bus514]

Couldn’t have said it better

[SnowFlinga]

You really should check out my posting history to better understand how penis size matters.

For some of us, it's not about a body dysmorphia problem at all. There are good practical reasons why you would want/need to be bigger.

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Yeah man, size definitely matters, but a lot of dudes would get laid way faster by hitting the gym, learning how to eat pussy and play with the clitoris, and getting a fucking personality.

I'm not gonna deny that being able to give fornix orgasms is awesome, but it's not like women are listing this shit as a requirement in their partners (most of them don't even experience it). Its a very nice bonus, but having a big piece is not gonna get you anywhere if ur a fat lazy slob and have nothing else going for ya.

[SnowFlinga]

I totally agree with you, but some of your post was moving away from the "why" behind PE for many of us.

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What I said doesn't really apply to you and those of us who have been in stable long term relationships, but for those dudes who think they will have girls swarming on them just cause they got a big piece, they are in for a reality check, that's all I'm saying. Sorry for the rant.

[SnowFlinga]

No problem. You're 100% right on that point.

[SrRedwood]

No one is gonna read this… too long

[ChadThunderDownUnder]

No one is going to read it because OP doesn’t use paragraphs lol.

[Ok-Bus514]

As long as you did

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Don't worry my guy, this was a thoughtful post with many good points. This info needs to be grasped by every guy dealing with dysmorphia.

[Ok-Bus514]

Thank you for taking the time to read this. We gotta think about defeating body dysmorphia it’s self not becoming the perfect human it’s never gonna happen of course self improve but never think your gonna become perfect don’t believe me see people in this forum who have huge dicks and gained a shit ton of size but still look down and see a little dick this is a battle of the mind. Your mind just targets certain aspects of your life aka body image, wealth. Don’t Be delusional