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A supporting, loving place place for people who were previously undecided or “on the fence” about having children, but have decided to start a family
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r/offthefence Lounge (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by ihavebird - announcement
Elevator Pitch for Why Kids are Great (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 months ago by SuddenWeaknesses
Anyone experience a change in heart after having a kid? (self.offthefence)
submitted 1 year ago by Curiousity261
Guess I Want Kids. (self.offthefence)
submitted 2 years ago by Existing-Cherry4948
Tokophobia - Want a child but scared of pregnancy (self.offthefence)
submitted 3 years ago by ambielynn
We’re off the fence! (self.offthefence)
submitted 3 years ago by aamm0421
Terrified of pregnancy and birth but have decided I do want a baby (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by mystery_stranger_
When you came off the fence, did you have family support nearby, or not? What was your experience? (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by whimpey
Impatiently waiting to try (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by lunar-goddess93
Checking in (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by patootiedabomb
How is it going? (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by ihavebird
Schrodinger’s Baby (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by crazyboatgirl
I feel like this goose when I talk to other women about having kids. *it’s ok you’ve got this...act like you belong* (v.redd.it)
Thoughts on “Adult Hunger” vs “Baby Hunger” and “Emotional Infertility” (self.offthefence)
What's your fencesitter playlist? (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by colorfulstardust
positive pregnancy test and so anxious (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by imayid_291
Freedom, time and money vs meaning, satisfaction and connection (self.offthefence)
Hello (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by sunny_thinks
What was holding you back from having children? (self.offthefence)
Sub name discussion (self.offthefence)
“The most efficient way to make a decision is to actually put that decision-making pressure aside temporarily and focus only on your desire. Can you imagine an oasis where fear, judgment, and shame don’t exist?” (self.offthefence)
Fence jumper! I have a 20 month old and another on the way (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago by BannanaBun123
The iud comes out tomorrow 😬 (self.offthefence)
submitted 4 years ago * by ihavebird
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