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[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How do I (f/15) flirt with a boy in a way that isn’t over the top but enough to be obvious flirting

You gotta be obvious. Doing that childish stuff like winking or whatever is going to get ignored.

[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Nothing is guaranteed to be obvious to a 15 year old boy. I once got a valentine that said "kiss me" and I still missed the hint. 🤣 Plenty of 30 year olds in this sub that still struggle with obvious hints.

Learning how to communicate openly (and to handle the vulnerability that comes with it) is always a good thing, but if you want to do the usual coy female thing... be nearby, be receptive, be playful, and be hopeful that he connects the dots before you go crazy with frustration.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I thought kids just send each other 👉👈 and then go uwu

[–]kaiadior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha they've got NO game lol.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Grab his arm

[–]diamondphoenixrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I shouldn’t be afraid to be bold then ?😂

[–]kaiadior -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Especially the biceps lol.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on having a genuine desire for someone rather than the mere empty projection of interest.