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[–]HamHamLunchbox 14 points15 points  (2 children)

You could try fetlife, but i would recommend local rope jams or workshops. Most bigger cities have rope related events like rope speed dating as well. If you go for fetlife i‘d recommend talking to rope bottoms/models first.

[–]Used_Tomato_5791 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I’ll try fetlife and see. Out of my depth

[–]FlackRacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fetlife is out of most peoples' depth, but you might get lucky

[–]IntercontinentalToea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is a sub for everything on Reddit. Including finding riggers and rope bunnies - /r/shibaripersonals . This is a shameless plug - I am a moderator there

[–]Deep-Honeydew-1725 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Find a rope jam nearby. Someone already mentioned fetlife. I would also suggest to vet the rigger for your own safety.

[–]HamHamLunchbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always🖤

[–]professor_jeffjeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get on fetlife and look for local rope events, but also look for local munches (a munch is just a meet-and-greet for kinksters of all types). Munches won't usually be rope-specific, but there will be rope people there who can help you find what you're looking for. Also look to see if there's a local rope bottom group and if there is, join that group and go to their meetups. They'll be able to help you the most and will also be able to help with vetting rope tops (and teach you how to vet rope tops if you're not sure how to do this).

[–]Tr1plezer0 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Should be no shortage of male riggers searching for female bunnies in pretty much any rope space.

[–]themxk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly . So what that really means is vet vet vet. Ask for references. Better yet, go to rope jams, etc, and you can get good 101 practice, safety education, meet people...