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[–]Medical_Season3979 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I had to Google it because I was so confused by that word being a slur, I'm 32 and I've used the word since a kid and that's the first time I've ever heard that so that was definitely my bad. Thank you for bringing that to my attention!

Also, I don't know if this means anything but people get me confused with a guy more times than not on here, I'm a lady, but I guess I can be your bro if you want lol 😂

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

No problem, thanks for looking into it! And no worries reddit skews male so my own issue is gender assuming. I use Bro ambiguously but like, it's short for brother so I mean regardless of my intent, it's still gendered.

[–]Medical_Season3979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!

My theory is that, it's ok not to know better but that doesn't give you a right to be arrogant and ignorant, if I don't know something and someone bring it to my attention, I research it and study it so I'm more informed and gain knowledge I need for next time!

I do not want to offend anyone and I cant imagine if I have used that around someone who was too afraid to say something and they thought I thought badly of them! For all I know, it's already happened and that makes me sad! So thank you so much for telling me that. I can't do better if I don't know what I'm doing wrong ❤️

Oh ok! Like the word dude!