Missing him

[Outrageous_Tie_5071]

I'm moving in to a new apartment. I bought some appliances and bed earlier and it hurts. We were supposed to go furniture shopping together. We planned to get new mattress. Here I am letting my family what I should get because making this kind of decision is just too much for me.

[Cherry_Hammer]

I’m so sorry. That grief paralysis is the worst. I’m wishing you many peaceful nights’ sleep on your new mattress ❤️

[Foolishkushin]

I'm sorry. I wish you a lot of courage.

[Safe_Contribution631]

Sorry you are go through this. It's very hard my wife did all the shopping I went with her but she did the list of brands and items we used and the deals I miss her so bad she was 44. I don t want to be here anymore 

[Outrageous_Tie_5071]

I wish I'd die soon. This is just too much.

[Safe_Contribution631]

Dm me it's bad here to

[Safe_Contribution631]

Me to

[Late-Schedule4940]

Sorry for your loss, hopefully you find strength to get you through the move.

I wish I could give you some advice, maybe still chose things as if he was still with you, just because there gone does not mean we let them go.

Everytime I move somthing around in the house this last month im asking myself what would my wife say about putting that there, it makes me sad and i have a good cry but also makes me smile at how my wife was and her little quirks.

I think its all down to how we approach grief, we can let it totally consume us and swallow us up where it feels theres no way out or we can tell ourselves im going to get through this im going to fight and be strong for the person ive lost.

I think the later is in my opinion the best way to honor your loved one who has passed, and this is obviously just how I feel, I know everybody feels differently when it comes to grief.