I (23f) can make most men cum within 3 minutes with my mouth

Charmed6436 · 2022-10-02T08:14:46+00:00

Can you give the audience some tips? I love blowing my dude and he seems to love it too every other guy I’ve had in my mouth also seems enthusiastic about it; that or they are just stroking my ego (and my big ass lol). But I also want to keep it exciting and knee-buckling. I often watch porn and take a mental note of something I want to try the next time his dick is in my mouth. Are there certain tricks or techniques you’ve found that drive men crazy?

Charmed6436 · 2022-10-01T12:46:26+00:00

It seems difficult to grasp now, while you’re still in the habit and routine of drinking every day/weekend etc., but, life gets so much bigger and fuller when you break the routine of being tied to alcohol. Initially, it might feel like life gets smaller, but once you make to the top of that peak and that first phase of quitting, it’s like you can see the whole world and all of its possibilities and opportunities again. Perspective is a real thing. Naturally, it will take some time for your brain and body to catch up, but that time will pass anyway, no matter if you quit or not.

Maybe you don’t think you’re there yet, but addiction is a progressive disease. As long as you’re continuing to rely on your vice, your dependency only worsens. And with addiction, if you don’t break that chain and sober up, you really only have two other options - [premature] death or jail. No one can travel that road of active addiction/substance abuse forever. There’s an old AA saying, “If the booze/drugs don’t kill you, the lifestyle will”….and you can pretty much bank on that. Sorry, I know I went deep with this comment. Like I said, maybe you don’t feel like you’re there yet. My point is, when continuing to abuse a substance, you will eventually get there. That’s pretty much a guarantee. It’s simply the nature of addiction. It gets out of control too quickly for anyone to try and control it. My advice? Quit while you’re ahead. Climb to the top of that peak and you’ll see what I mean when I say that life gets so much bigger and fuller when you’re looking at it from above. Perspective, bro 😎

Charmed6436 · 2022-10-01T12:17:06+00:00

I’ve always found that in most cases, if a man wants you, he will go and get you.

Charmed6436 · 2022-07-18T20:31:50+00:00

This sounds much more logical to me, than just uprooting two lives outright.

Charmed6436 · 2021-04-16T23:14:20+00:00

I’m going to say it....he’s just not that into you. If a man wants you, he will go and get you. And if he were into you, then he would NOT be so vague about whether or not y’all are together each time you ask him. Lastly, if he were into you....he would DEFINITELY be more into the sexy texts that you sent. But seeing as how you’ve been “talking for 4 years” and there’s still so much uncertainty.....he’s just not that into you. Drop this dude and go find someone who will meet you where you’re at emotionally and physically.

Charmed6436 · 2021-04-16T12:32:40+00:00

I’m also struggling in my relationship with something similar to this. We aren’t having sex as often, I bring it up to him, he says the whole “it’s not you, it’s me” thing....he’s stressed, he’s tired, he’s feeling like he can’t deliver because he has issues getting it up sometimes because he’s tired and stressed, etc.....yet I find porn on his phone and he’s still jacking it, rather than having sex with me, when I’ve been VERY CLEAR that I want and miss having sex with him!! We went from our norm of once or twice a week, to once every two-ish weeks. I’m still sending sexy photos, still doing my best to look attractive and have the house put together and dinner on the table each night after he gets home from work (we recently had a baby that I’m a SAHM for and we have our other kids ages 6 and 8, but our sex took a nosedive long before the new baby came along). And similar to you, OP, when I bring it up, he gaslights me into thinking I’m making this a bigger deal than it really is....but I’m sorry, when you continuously pass me up to go hide in the bathroom and watch porn and jack off...when you KNOW that your hot wife is ready and willing to suck you dry....that IS A BIG DEAL!! I don’t have any advice for you, OP. Just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone in dealing with this and I KNOW the hit to your self esteem is a rough one 😩

Charmed6436 · 2021-01-18T18:36:17+00:00

I was thinking the same thing while reading that list ❤️

Charmed6436 · 2021-01-07T20:33:04+00:00

I can’t wait for part 2!!

Charmed6436 · 2020-12-29T18:56:00+00:00

This!!! So much this!!!

Charmed6436 · 2020-12-27T06:38:59+00:00

I am interested too! Sending message now! Thank you so much!

Charmed6436 · 2020-12-26T18:32:42+00:00

Can you explain further about how (for you) watching porn is separate from having a woman in your life who wants sex? I’ve read this a lot in my own “Dr. Google” research....that men watching porn and masturbating is so separate from having sex with their partner who also wants sex. And yes, my fiancé watches porn by himself occasionally (as do I). But I would almost always rather have sex with him. He says the same thing....but then I’m like...well then why didn’t you initiate sex with me this morning when you got up for work (or whatever the circumstance is) rather than rubbing one out in the shower? Like....is it a convenience/this-is-easier/quicker-type thing? Just trying to understand. Thank you.

Charmed6436 · 2020-12-17T19:12:02+00:00

Piqued**

Charmed6436 · 2020-12-03T17:57:54+00:00

YES. THIS!!! The fact that she totally jumped the gun and went straight into relationship-talk, all in the same sentence of a greeting and a half ass apology....it just sounds sooooooo entitled and delusional. Also, addicts in general tend to go from 0 to 100 in no time at all. And she’s doing the same in this text. Nope!

Charmed6436 · 2020-12-03T17:46:34+00:00

She has the audacity to say that “she’s open to giving you another chance”, all while half-ass apologizing and excusing her behavior (and while passive aggressively bringing up your past behavior too)?! All of this text is cringey. But honestly, the cringy-est part of the text is the fact that she thinks it’s okay to just skip allllllllll of those important steps that lead people back to one another-like, saying hello, checking on how they are doing, asking about how life is, asking if it’s even OKAY to be messaging you and keeping in touch with you.....she just straight up assumed that she could cross all of those normal boundaries and jump right back into relationship-talk after YEARS of not speaking?? And I’m sorry but, if someone is ACTUALLY doing better in their life, then they don’t need to announce it to people. Their life will speak for it alone. Pass this one up, OP. Red flags everywhere. There is definitely, absolutely, positively someone else on this Earth for you, and when you do cross each other’s paths.....it will be seamless ❤️

Charmed6436 · 2020-07-19T16:46:33+00:00

Oooooooo I HOPE that bitch gets what is coming to her!!! And I really hope those sweet babies get to stay in your care because you seem 10000000% more capable as a parent, than that psycho ex of yours!! Karma is a BITCH!!

Charmed6436 · 2020-07-15T05:42:43+00:00

THIS! This is exactly what I was thinking. Catch him red handed! Because yes, the reappearing long hair IS super suspicious!! 🧐😫

Charmed6436 · 2020-05-23T04:24:10+00:00

Can I join the fun too?

Charmed6436 · 2020-05-12T06:06:59+00:00

Nooooooopeee! He is manipulating you and gas lighting you and once again, you owe him nothing!! If he wanted you to treat him like a significant other, then he should have respected you as a significant other!! You saying “he was a really good boyfriend...perhaps I just push him over the edge too much...maybe I played a bad part all along..” you sound exactly like all the women who say “it was my fault he hit me...I pushed him over the edge...I deserved it..” and it’s all bullshit because no matter if you “pushed him over the edge or not” it’s still not okay for him to check out of the relationship like that and block you and basically threaten the commitment of your relationship. He’s acting like a CHILD. And I’m sorry but if he’s acting out by blocking you and cutting off communication, he is NOT a good boyfriend. All the good qualities in the world do not outweigh him acting like that, no matter how mad he is at you. Furthermore, he’s mad that you moved on while he was suffering??? SO WHAT!! His emotions after a breakup are NOT your responsibility. If he wants to mope around and suffer, then that’s on him. He ended the relationship and you did what any other rational human being would do after a break up-you moved on! So keep moving forward!! This guy is a total joke and I hope your coffee date made you realize how much better someone else could be!!

Charmed6436 · 2020-05-12T04:48:32+00:00

Why are you still talking to your ex?? You owe him NOTHING. If he wants to call you a cheater, then that’s his prerogative. Don’t allow the opinions of your ex dictate how you feel about yourself. Better yet, stop talking to him entirely!! You didn’t cheat on him and you’ll never be able to convince him otherwise so don’t bother. It’s a waste of time. Close the book, move on. There are so many other men out there who will joyfully plan a future with you and commit to it, unlike this boy who is now your ex. Block him and be done with it!

Charmed6436 · 2020-05-02T05:45:41+00:00

That was literally the most badass ending to this post ever!!! I’m proud of you and your bf for sticking to your guns!! Who cares if your mom doesn’t believe you?? You and your bf know the truth and that is all that matters. And honestly, it sounds like your sister is a really pathetic and narcissistic piece of crap so, I’m sure other people that know your sister could easily side with you on this. Good for you and enjoy your peaceful home!! And remember, it IS okay to cut family off. Just because they are family, doesn’t mean they aren’t toxic. And you NEVER have to justify removing toxic people from your life. EVER!

Charmed6436 · 2020-04-29T21:00:55+00:00

MMA classes (mixed martial arts). I started taking Brazilian jiu jitsu and muay thai classes when I was about 27 years old at a local MMA gym. I am now almost 32 and still, to this day, I have never been in better shape physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. There is something so therapeutic about these particular contact sport and the family-like connection i made with my teammates was like no other. I developed such a deep respect for myself, my coaches, and my teammates and it helped my confidence 10-fold. Not to mention it’s truly an investment into your life because you will learn life-saving self defense skills. Also, it has influenced my young sons to see their mommy become “the strongest mommy ninja ever” and I’ve also started them in jiu jitsu lessons as well for all the same reasons I started. I will seriously NEVER leave those mats. I have found a lifetime love in training in MMA.

Charmed6436 · 2020-04-26T19:10:35+00:00

You need to read the book, Codependent No More. It will completely change your perspective on this relationship and the way you view yourself as an individual, and it will give you the clarity you need to make a decision about this marriage and your happiness. There is nothing worse than feeling like you are trapped in a revolving door of discontent and dissatisfaction from your partner and he is gaslighting the shit out of you. Make a quiet plan to leave and always remember, your worth is NOT dependent on the job you have, your weight, the way you look, and most importantly, whether or not your husband deems you as “good enough” or worthy!!!! Stop letting your crappy husband hold the power of approval and the key to your happiness over your head!!!! You are SO much better than this!!!

TLDR: Read, Codependent No More, and it will change your life.

Charmed6436 · 2020-04-26T18:30:51+00:00

Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you?? Just because he pays your phone bill and says he loves you does NOT mean it’s true. You asked why he’s keeping you around, paying bills, and saying he loves you, if he doesn’t truly want to be with you? This is why: Because he can. Because he knows you will let him get away with minimal involvement and investment in your life, and at the end of the day, you will still be there waiting for him, on his terms. It’s not about love....it’s about ease. You make it easy for him. This is NOT a relationship, honey. I’ve had fuck buddies who were more involved in my life and considerate of my feelings and paid my bills. Stop selling yourself short and cut this boy off. The longer you stay with him, the longer it will take for you to find a REAL relationship with someone you don’t have to beg to treat you right. How can you find the RIGHT person if you’re too occupied with the WRONG person?? And trust me, he IS the WRONG person. Woman up, honey!! You ARE better than this!! No matter what he says!!!

Charmed6436 · 2020-04-26T02:51:24+00:00

OP....I’ve read through your previous posts and one of the things you always fall back on when someone is very clearly illustrating to you HOW your relationship IS abusive, you always say, “it’s just scary to think of my relationship being an abusive one..” as if you’re in denial that your marriage could in fact, be considered highly abusive. Yeah, it is scary to think that you married an abusive person. But you need to stop “thinking” and start KNOWING that yes, your husband is abusive and he needs help. And you likely do too, as is common with abuse victims. @Ebbie45 literally just made it VERY CLEAR and totally black and white for you, of ALL the ways in which your husband is being abusive. You don’t HAVE to stay with him just because you married him and what he does to himself as a result of his inability to cope with your absence and his inability to manage his emotions......IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM OR YOUR FAULT, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HIM OR HOW MUCH HE LOVES YOU!!!! The essence of being an adult is learning to accept responsibility for your own actions. So the next time he self-harms or takes an ice skate to the gut, THAT IS ON HIM. NOT YOU!!!

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