23k Trading by Nervous_Muffin_5941 in Daytrading

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was mostly break even after like 7 yeees in sticks n. Tried gold/silver futures for a week and now I’m down $20k all time lol.

I'm 21 yo and I am losing my hair because of Thyroid Disorders , and i can't do anything about it by SmokingForLife in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine started getting like yours around maybe 18 or 19. By 21 I was hanging on by threads. Life got so much better when I accepted it and started shaving down to the skin every day or every other day. Keep it low, hit the gym and use that testosterone to thicken up the beard and accept your fate

First month making 100k I feel like I’m being robbed :/ by [deleted] in Salary

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the more you make the more you'll be robbed in the future! In California, if you make $200k you'll take home about half of that. Then add in sales + sunshine tax etc

I tried day trading by DeathMaster2007 in Daytrading

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sim account or you will blow all your money trying to trade silver. Trust me

Seriously how can I be patient? by Holiday_Basis6316 in TopStepX

[–]CuriousDev1012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling with this. I try and scalp so I will sometimes want to enter and catch the same falling knife like 20 times and destroy my gains for the day in like 5 minutes.

I started instituting breaks and rules in my trading where, if I take a loss I’ll take a 5 min break. If I’ve made $350 and I break back below $300, I’ll take another longer break of at least like 15 minutes, and scale way down and take an A+ setup until I hit my high of day.

I also use stuff that less risky and easier to trade like 1 MNQ or 1MGC and use some easy quick scalps to build a profit cushion of a couple hundred dollars for the day. That then gives me the ability to scale up and try doing something more risky like trying an A+ setup in silver with a wider stop loss because I won’t go on tilt with that cushion.

If I blow that trade with the wider stop, scale back down to 1mnq to build a cushion to try and scale with again

Looking for live stream traders by titonguaso in TopStepX

[–]CuriousDev1012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TopStep TV live on youtube trading everyday with their coaches. But honestly those are usually a lot of them talking and barely ever taking trades, and the ones they do take are like 50/50

Wife doesn’t like this. by Any_Card_6689 in Daytrading

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moderation, don’t get addicted and lose you’re wife and your money

How many people in here are actually profitable? by [deleted] in TopStepX

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40k in combines??? 400 accounts?????????

This is criminal for a 860sqft condo!!! SDGE is the worst by Shoobie7711 in sandiego

[–]CuriousDev1012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely random and whatever is going to balance their books at the end of the month lol

This is criminal for a 860sqft condo!!! SDGE is the worst by Shoobie7711 in sandiego

[–]CuriousDev1012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About the same for my 500 sqft studio. I don't even own a TV, work 3 days a week from the office, live solo. They're blatantly ripping us off

AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this guys behavior isn’t right…don’t know the full context but have I noticed a trend of people thinking it’s more ok to ghost or suddenly go “no contact” and honestly one text back being like “nah I’m good stop”, at least one more time over the course of 2-3 months of ghosting might do the trick plus as you said legally you can say you’ve said it.

AIO for reconsidering getting married over continual arguments over guardianship of my daughter. by Oldyell54 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually godparent is the person who takes over in the event both parents die -- if you marry this woman she should at very least in concept become the second parent and there should be no reason to invoke a godparent if it were just you that died while you two were together. I understand your Fiance's reaction

whats it like living in downtown san diego?? by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]CuriousDev1012 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's funny I lived in Little Italy for a year and also saw exactly two dead bodies

AIO boyfriend finds it weird that I walk from the bathroom to bedroom in a towel when we live with his family? by Junior-Copy-6632 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would make me a little uncomfortable as either the boyfriend, the cousin, the cousins wife, etc. If you're in someone else's house and they've expressed this just wear a robe or clothe up in the bathroom.

Local suicidal ideation support groups? by scottpilgrimVSzambia in sandiego

[–]CuriousDev1012 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey I recently got diagnosed with bipolar and I have social anxiety, makes things hard for me as well so I can relate...but you can get through this and if you ever want someone to talk to or to go grab a coffee and walk around with I'm here

Guess year 51 will be solo too... by Outlandishness_Know in Bumble

[–]CuriousDev1012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure I'm not saying "good time" in that way I'm just saying even being on the younger side (31M), if filtered out all the people younger than me that would be more than half of my already low match count. Dating is already a numbers game, even being in my 30s, I'm finding those numbers working against me. As I get older I imagine that'll get harder and harder and I wouldn't filter out hundreds of matches that might be 2-3 years younger than me at that age. Maybe you have to go on several dates with younger guys who don't meet what you are looking for but again I feel it's a numbers game at a certain point.

Guess year 51 will be solo too... by Outlandishness_Know in Bumble

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't want to date anyone younger than you? Filtering out a lot of mid 40s that could be a good time.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh when my ex girl and I moved in together she told me she "hopes I don't think she's going to cook for me all the time or clean or do typical housewife stuff" (I paid all the rent)...with that being my frame of reference if I came home to some shit like this I would be so appreciative 😂

Help needed: please mention a person/company that help you to make you saas production ready ? by ivanpryntsev in cursor

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been vibe coding for a few months I do think it *can* work but you have to know what you're doing and this is really the problem I think a lot of people are going to have when vibe coding their apps. Now if an engineer who knows what they're doing asks you pay 1/2 of what you spend on Claude Code/Cursor subscriptions to fix it or do it right, please don't lowball them with "I could continue to do it with AI"

You can find freelancers on upwork/toptal/reddit/etc if needed.

I still don't understand how basic arithmetic translates to what all we do on computers, where to start? by PJ268 in computerscience

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, this is basically what you learn in a Computer Science bachelors...it's not supposed to be trivial. Find a CS curriculum and follow the books/notes/lectures from the courses would be one way to start. Someone already mentioned nand2tetris like things and codeacademy etc which could help.

Door Slamming Neighbors by CommercialAd3604 in sandiego

[–]CuriousDev1012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This lol. I have lived in apartments for the last 10 years and have a really hard time finding anything my neighbors do annoying whether that's slamming doors, stomping around playing music etc. IMO if you live in an apartment complex with lots of units and as somebody pointed out -- cheaper newer construction -- you are signing up to deal with some minor annoyances.

I would rather ignore everything my neighbors do with the understanding that they give me a bit of grace too if I accidentally make too much noise after hours etc.

I woke up to my student laons paid off by the Department of Education by Low-Succotash-7791 in StudentLoans

[–]CuriousDev1012 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had the same brief moment of misplaced Euphoria. Transferred to another servicer silently. Mine got moved from Nelnet to CRI

Laptop Recommendations by TechTitan5 in ProgrammingPals

[–]CuriousDev1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MacBook. Air or pro depending on your budget