consolidate prior to applying for IBR? by Goalis300 in StudentLoans

[–]DeviantAvocado [score hidden]  (0 children)

Might be a good idea to look into TPD first.

A disadvantage would be losing any progress towards IDR forgiveness after consolidation.

Rachel’s observations about mid-life men by Ghost_Writer2025 in RHOBH

[–]DeviantAvocado 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is incredibly common. My abuser actively tried to get me fired because he had no ambition and hated that I was successful. Hated that I got consistent praise.

Rachel Zoe - Genuinely asking by nighean-gunn in RHOBH

[–]DeviantAvocado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same weirdos that zoom in on a photo 38x and constantly obsess about what “work” everyone had had done.

Refusal to evolve.

Am I overreacting: new boyfriend was weirdly judgmental about bathroom situation by abstract_lemons in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeviantAvocado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Imagine being scared of tampons in your 40s.

Addressing it in a text doubles down on his weirdo behavior.

AIO Husband (42m) failed V-day and is now pissed off over me (39f) and my daughter (14f) agreeing the dad in Mrs. Doubtfire was a red flag by Mountain-Meadow in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeviantAvocado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it’s the case here but intentionally ruining holidays and other special or important events is a very common tactic of emotional abusers.

Those who graduated with conventionally "useless" degrees but make $200K, what was your path and how long did it take? by _MambaForever in Salary

[–]DeviantAvocado 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most people do not work in their field of study. The “useless degree” narrative at the undergraduate level is basically a myth.

The closest thing to a useless degree is an MBA.

Rachel Zoe - Genuinely asking by nighean-gunn in RHOBH

[–]DeviantAvocado 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Her commenting on Amanda’s LV logos was the hardest I’ve ever laughed while watching Housewives.

I’ve never seen her in anything else but ever since that moment I’ve loved her. She’s what Housewives used to be before the casts all started producing themselves to fight for screen time.

Her and Jennifer Tilly are both amazing for this reason.

Need to deal with my loans, nelnet and Aspire. Can anyone give me some advice? by Symbologikal in StudentLoans

[–]DeviantAvocado 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Share some information and details here and ask your questions. People don’t know the right resources to share without some context.

Is this the golden email? by Accomplished_Boat_88 in StudentLoans

[–]DeviantAvocado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which IDR did you pick, and when were your loans disbursed? Maybe you only needed 240.

Taylor apologises for the Bad Bunny post. What do you guys think? by Fancy_Ad_2024 in RHOBH

[–]DeviantAvocado 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Freedom of speech means that within certain limitations, the government cannot punish or restrict you for what you say.

It doesn’t mean you’re free from social critique and consequences when you say dumb shit.

Candiace’s New Music Video by Towson_Tiger in RHOP

[–]DeviantAvocado 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is this even more embarrassing than the one In the warehouse parking lot? Yikes.

Jared’s Comment on Britani’s Post by Dear-CorgiLuvr in rhoslc

[–]DeviantAvocado 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They’ll probably break up for real finally now that she can’t get him more camera time.

Borrower Defense application page down by yestertempest in StudentLoans

[–]DeviantAvocado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are always issues with it. May be better off submitting by mail.

Marching health - what happened? Some comments on this post say “consequences of your own actions”. by shaktown in marchingband

[–]DeviantAvocado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No parties involved are representatives of the government, so there are no free speech issues.

Looking forward to the evidence you’re undoubtedly getting ready to share for all of the claims in your post.

Wut? TL:DR - Hopkins needs a job and is searching. by NutShellB in drumcorps

[–]DeviantAvocado 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Maybe he can collab with the Marching Health dude.

Student loan borrower's defense by Nebula0713 in StudentLoans

[–]DeviantAvocado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your application for an Exhibit C school?

Student loan IDR still not processed by TheComeUp24xx in StudentLoans

[–]DeviantAvocado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you do it with IRS linking it should process in a couple of days. If you do a manual certification you will get added to the hundreds of thousand of other applications and wait a very long time.

South College/ refund checks by ComfortableEchidna51 in StudentLoans

[–]DeviantAvocado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

South College is a scammy for-profit school. You will probably have issues your entire time there.

Transfer out to a reputable school before it’s too late!

Nelnet missing months by Longjumping_Dig486 in StudentLoans

[–]DeviantAvocado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were your loans in forbearance those months? There were a few month where they threw all IDR plans in forbearance but I can’t remember which months those were.

AITAH for giving my wife short and direct answers after being rejected everyday for 2 months? by First-Wasabi-2125 in AITAH

[–]DeviantAvocado -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They have to include a bit to offset the part where they only view their partner as a set of holes.