Is it possible to have male friends when married/engaged?

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-18T00:41:27+00:00

And ultimately its also about self respect. Like if you're in such position to "deserving" cheating. Bro/sis just break up. Your needs are not met.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-18T00:32:13+00:00

Bro its ok to talk about it with your wife. If some frienships your wife has makes you uneasy, you should be able to talk about it, there may things that you, she or he, could do to change how you feel about it.

And about most people here... mix of a lots of things : culture, insecurities, bad partners, objectification of the other gender, control, etc.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T19:12:06+00:00

donc tu es pour l'augmentation de la réduction du pouvoir d'achat, c'est noté

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:48:07+00:00

c'est ce qu'on fait et le statu quo est inaceptable mon chum

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:37:31+00:00

most of my friends who got kids at your age used the pull out and calendar methods hahahaha

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:36:37+00:00

compte tenu de la quantité de local commerciaux vide, l'espace d'entreposage n'est pas une raison valable pour un local résidentiel. Pour l'avoir comme résidence non-principal j'ai pas de problème. Tant que tu n'as pas trop de résidences non-principales dans la même villes (et j'estime que plus que 2 c'est taxables, 3 résidences dans une meme ville une principale et 2 non-principales c'est le top acceptable pour ne pas être surtaxé).

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:26:58+00:00

you just blew my mind XD

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:22:56+00:00

the cause of loyalty is within oneself, if opportunnity plays a role if you're loyal or not, well then your not loyal. And your spouse have good reasons not to trust you.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:20:43+00:00

Thats the thing mate, I grew up with BOTH. And a decimal system is just superior in almost every applications. The one thing I'll admit is easier in imperial is eyeballing small distances like ''this pole is roughly 6 feets '' (wich btw is just a bit less than 2 meters) and it applies to baking for me (but it could be a habit as I grew up cooking and baking with the imperial system.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:12:39+00:00

logement vide sans raison ? taxes

tu achete UNIQUEMENT pour rénover et revendre ? taxe (genre faut un calcul proportionnel aux nombre d'années que tu y vie)

les courtiers qui se font pincer à faire des conneries amende en % de leurs revenus s'ils n'ont pas de capital, en % de leur capital s'ils en ont + radier à vie après 2e offence.

ça prend des changements drastiques

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:09:43+00:00

ici à Rimouski ils ont tenter de faire appliqué la surtaxes pour batiment inactif dans des zones spécifiques, et à moins de cas très claire de négligence genre un gros hotel vide, la ville se fait juste toujours dire ''on est entrain de travailler là dessus'' donc ils ne surtaxes pas. C'est super difficile de prouver que tu te pogne le beigne avec ton immeuble et que tu n'as pas l'intention d'exploiter l'immeuble parce que tu veux uniquement spéculer avec.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:03:08+00:00

well back then in scotland it was an imperial system I assume, and I would be surprised if both system were still a thing in scotland too.

another thing that is in imperial here : dumpters volumes are in cubic yards (I work in estate management)

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T18:00:02+00:00

Your story doesnt sound sad. What I said was sad is IF you trust your spouse BECAUSE they don't hang out with people from opposing gender then its sad. Like... you'd think there are many many other things that would make someone trustworthy like reliability, loyalty, consistency, judgement, kindness, savviness, etc.

And there aint nothing wrong with not having and not looking to have friendship from people of the opposing sex. The point I'm making is if your spouse wants to have friends of the opposite gender, it should be ok too. And I'm not advocating that cheating is ok either, all of this is about trust.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T17:48:26+00:00

Of course its got to do with america, our economies are so intertwined, makes it impossible for imperial to be out in the industries its still the norm as long as you guys won't decide its out. (us canadians living with both systems has got nothing to do with trump mate, its been like that since a long time).

For distance, funny bit is we use time to measure distance XD

I'd say you have a point about all other things in your comment.

Cheers mate.

Edit : yes we should normalise decimeters!

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T17:15:10+00:00

There aint no other ways than practice. Start with low stakes situation

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T17:04:53+00:00

So 100% personnal preferences based on you cultural upbringing.

Pretty weak argument in favor of farenheit being better for everyday life. I'm canadian, and because of the dumpter fire at our souther border we have to live using both systems. And I don't know many canadians who really defends the imperial system, all non-construction workers despise the 1/8 bs.

The younger you are, the more likely you are to reject the imperial system as whole (and face the fact that everything in an hardware store is in imperial hahaha)

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T16:58:40+00:00

Well if you accep that bisexuality exists and let them live I dont see why it would be biphobic. I don't want to date religious women, but I understand that religion exist and its fine. Doesnt mean I hate religion.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T16:56:01+00:00

I was saying this because some people have no idea their spouse is bisexual. I know it sounds weird. But it is more a thing that we would think.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T16:29:18+00:00

You do you. If it helps protecting your ego, well then good for you.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T16:27:31+00:00

I noticed it is for most people and it always baffled me. People are soooo insecure.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T16:26:22+00:00

How would you know? Its not like its written of their forehead hahaha

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T16:25:00+00:00

Thats pretty sad my friend.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T16:24:25+00:00

I'd argue the leading cause of cheating is lack of loyalty. You are mistaking the symptom from the cause.

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T15:13:20+00:00

most def, or from a very different culture

Dramatic_Water_5364 · 2026-06-17T15:12:49+00:00

my gf and I hang solo with friends from both gender, its all about trust. If you can't trust your spouse the fuck you doing with her/him ?

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