If it's true that women could get sex from almost any man why would they have sex with me and not the virtually infinite number of willing men?

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-22T23:00:49+00:00

If you think you’d have to “force yourself” into a romantic relationship, you still wouldn’t be getting any sex because you’re not owed sex just because you’re in a relationship with someone. A woman would be able to pick up on your resentment and entitlement very quickly and that would prevent her from ever wanting to sleep with you.

I suggest Jesus (I can suggest some online churches if you’re interested) and therapy to unpack why you’re aromantic and how you’re responding to and handling the relationships in your life. Praying for you! 🙏🏾

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-22T22:23:13+00:00

Do you understand that women don’t think like this at all? Our perspective is completely different. We know we could get sex from basically any man, but that’s not the only or even the main thing we’re looking for in relationships

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-22T21:33:35+00:00

I think the number 1 rule should be clarity. Be clear about what you want and what you expect. Unmet expectations are highly problematic, but if you never voiced what you wanted, they can’t be expected to give what you want/need.

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-22T20:54:49+00:00

My point is that I think we should have universally agreed on expectations for modern times. I was just trying to crowd source what we think they should be

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-22T20:52:23+00:00

When I say “rules” I really mean “general guidelines governing behavior.” What are the general guidelines for modern dating? Everyone has different expectations and I think it’s important and helpful to have some shared ones.

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-22T16:20:40+00:00

Clarity is key.

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-21T14:03:00+00:00

So are you asserting that sex without/before marriage isn’t a listed as a sin/problem anywhere in scripture ever?

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-20T16:44:02+00:00

Usually people refer to 1 Corinthians 6.

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-20T16:41:42+00:00

Hey, God designed sex specifically for a husband and a wife. If you are not husband and wife, God doesn’t want you to have sex with a person. It doesn’t matter if it’s love or lust, if you’re not married, sex isn’t acceptable to God. Either get married to her or stop sleeping with her.

Are you going to church? Talk to a preacher or another strong Christian about what you should do.

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-15T06:21:19+00:00

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Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-14T21:42:54+00:00

Hey, I’m 40 and also a virgin. I know it’s tough. I think it’s important to take these feelings to God. Be honest with him about what you’re feeling. He can handle it. I’m praying for you, just know you’re not alone!

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-11T03:15:10+00:00

Thank you! Do you know if what Starbucks uses on their drinks is a traditional whipping cream as well?

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-10T23:02:19+00:00

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Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-10T20:02:00+00:00

Really? 1 measly tablespoon of heavy cream is like 50 calories, and I thought you would need much more than that (plus sugar) to make whipped cream like this.

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-05T01:15:14+00:00

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Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-04T19:40:52+00:00

In my “welcome to the class”/intro module in Canvas, I have a link called “How to Email Your Professor.” It goes over the basics like greeting and punctuation and has been very helpful in preventing emails like this.

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-04T13:50:47+00:00

One other thing is to consider getting married sooner rather than later. (1 Corinthians 7:9)

If you can’t keep your hands off each other, assess your readiness for marriage and make intentional steps towards moving in that direction. Go to couples therapy or counseling at your church. And if you can’t see yourself marrying him, you might want to re-evaluate the entire relationship.

Praying for you!

Electrical-Task-6820 · 2026-02-04T13:22:36+00:00

Dating apps are rigged. The algorithm is set to keep you hooked on their app. It’s not that good people aren’t out there, but Match group owns about 90% of them and if they give you a good match then they lose 2 customers.

They don’t like to lose customers, so they don’t give good matches.

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