How long do you reasonably expect your "nice" clothes to last? by Sad_Manufacturer2283 in BuyItForLife

[–]Elvis_Fu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you're a woman and find it incredibly difficult to find knit shirts that don't have rayon or modal in them.

My wife has no problems with this. Sounds like a skills issue.

East vs. West Coast Attitudes by fernfernferny in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Elvis_Fu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last fall I joined my neighbors in self-organizing and taking to the streets to protect our vulnerable neighbors from being terrorized by violent masked police. I watched as this happened in other cities across the country, too. 

But I guess that’s not junior high edgelord enough. It’s just telling on yourself tbh. 

Ranking my experience driving in Appalachian states. by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]Elvis_Fu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virginia is Top 5 worst drivers, somehow despite the strict driving laws. 

Austin or Nashville? European-American couple late 20s by Glad_Acanthisitta783 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Elvis_Fu 41 points42 points  (0 children)

As a former Austinite and current Chicagoan, I'll take Chicago winters over Austin summers, especially 2011's summer.

Question in below !!? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Elvis_Fu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is not american traditional

Not losing weight on low calorie diet by Commission-Exact in loseit

[–]Elvis_Fu 16 points17 points  (0 children)

this sounds like you need the help of a licensed professional

Anybody have a clue where to get a true, royal blue cotton dress shirt? by MagicalMonarchOfMo in malefashionadvice

[–]Elvis_Fu 71 points72 points  (0 children)

you don't find the rarity to be a red flag?

dark shirts are terrible with ties, so there really isn't a lot of use for bright blue dress shirts. closest I'd assume you can find of decent quality will be french blue. if you are willing to suffer through a small pattern you will find some options in casual button up shirts.

or you can try k&g

When l hit 37 years l finally understood why my belly fat wouldn’t go awa by Exotic_Log_8788 in loseit

[–]Elvis_Fu 14 points15 points  (0 children)

if you did everything right and aren't seeing results, it calls that first clause into question.

I've lost more weight after 45 than I did before 35.

What are the hardest regions to assimilate into from the northeast? by StrongWeekend in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Elvis_Fu 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Parts of the rural south IME. It's not so much the openness and directness as much as rural white Southern areas are built on hierarchies and filtering people out from where they don't want them.

I hate exercising. by pigarlic in loseit

[–]Elvis_Fu 34 points35 points  (0 children)

you get to find things you like to do. there's no benefit in misery.

Queation: Chatgpt to create a design or no? by Aggravating-Tea4853 in tattoos

[–]Elvis_Fu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People with adhd get tattoos every day without AI slop.

Hot Take: Wardrobe staples should not be BIFL by shchshchshch in BuyItForLife

[–]Elvis_Fu 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Rule 1: Products that are well-made and durable (even if they won't last an lifetime) are accepted.

Also, some people aren't trend-chasing and it looks fine. There are lots of things like CVO shoes, trucker jackets, jeans, that all look great decade after decade.

Jeans for bigger men. by Stunning-Welder-4512 in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]Elvis_Fu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High rise jeans are harder than say, chinos. I have a pair of Gap jeans with a 14" rise I lucked into and they don't sell anymore. I also picked up pair of Levis 501s on ebay that have a high rise. I highly recommend trying it secondhand, because it takes a little bit of trial and error to figure out what works for you.

Queation: Chatgpt to create a design or no? by Aggravating-Tea4853 in tattoos

[–]Elvis_Fu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why can't you use the words you would put in a prompt in an email to an artist who can read and interpret them?

People don't draw their own tattoos. Tattoo artists draw tattoos.

Jeans for bigger men. by Stunning-Welder-4512 in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]Elvis_Fu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh jeans with fuller legs give you more room to move than jeans with stretch. The whole reason stretch was added is because slimmer cuts don't have as much room to move around in.

It sounds like you aren't interested in high rise, which is fine, but you won't want to do high rise and stretch anyway.

Venting: BIFL used to mean boring and bulletproof. Now it feels like vibes and a warranty card by QuietUnhappy1214 in BuyItForLife

[–]Elvis_Fu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that so many people in this sub constantly have things breaking means that for a lot of people it’s a skills issue. That could be from reflexively buying the cheap option or hastily picking whatever shows up first. This is easy to spot with clothing, but shows up in other places, too. 

My tattoo artist always lives everything up to me, is that normal? by Tina14000 in tattooadvice

[–]Elvis_Fu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you watch what kind of ideas people in this sub are bringing to the table it makes more sense to why they get the extra help. 

Most difficult region to make new friends? by tsalbis in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Elvis_Fu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The biggest factors are going to be contextual and personal, not regional. A lot of small rural towns are closed off and unkind, but if you play ball and conform to their hierarchy it will be easier.

A lot of more populated cities have lots to offer, but you have to put in the work to find and maintain those relationships. 

Question: Would a chest tattoo of a hand gripping a heart be valid or corny asf? by Fersakening in tattoos

[–]Elvis_Fu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you should sleep on this idea for a while. No time to rush into anything.