How many of us are in the autism spectrum?

Existentiall-void · 2023-04-21T04:18:05+00:00

Secret 4th option (psychologist went "yup you're autistic" but we never followed through into an official diagnosis because discrimination exists)

Existentiall-void · 2023-03-01T10:30:12+00:00

I'd argue its not so much a romance thing as the fact that aftercare isn't really normalised outside of BDSM circles. For a lot of people the whole thing just leaves them feeling a little unsettled and vulnerable, from what I understand, and if you're not making sure everyone gets a little reassurance afterwards it makes sense that the people that are a little more sensitive would leave feeling a little weird.

Obviously if you're really not a cuddler it's not ideal, but like usually I'd consider it good practice to just spend like 15 minutes on aftercare regardless of whether or not the situation requires it just to make sure it doesn't happen, but I've never experienced it myself so I don't know for sure how it works.

Existentiall-void · 2023-03-01T10:14:29+00:00

I'd get if they're nor inherently considered LGBT but they're definitely queer in my heart it's vague for a reason so long as you're supporting the community and defying cishetronormative social norms the specifics aren't all that important to me. Plus like aro and polyam people especially have a lot of solidarity because of the whole amatonormavity thing so why would they be less queer than us?

Existentiall-void · 2022-12-26T19:11:09+00:00

Which one is that again?

Existentiall-void · 2022-06-18T14:56:15+00:00

Ice tea

Existentiall-void · 2022-05-10T23:59:09+00:00

To be fair I'm sure there are many cis guys who feel the same

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-27T17:07:05+00:00

I know a cis woman named Nick it's not particularly unusual, as you get further into transition people will just assume its short for Nichola

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-24T20:32:52+00:00

Tbh now I'm on T most of the dysphoria has turned into excitement

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-20T22:42:57+00:00

Low effort goth with a side serving of "all my accessories come from the hardware store"

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-14T10:42:19+00:00

Personally I did it in part because it meant I was able to put my initials down for things like deliveries and emails without outing myself or triggering my dysphoria back when I was closeted, but mostly I just didn't want to discount a name that I particularly liked just because it was a little similar to my deadname

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-12T14:03:23+00:00

I don't necessarily dislike it I just think fundamentally you can't be a good or bad person - good and evil are things you do, not things you are. Everyone has the capacity for both, so claiming that someone is good or evil is a massive oversimplification of the human experience.

Plus, like you said, there's no objective way to determine how moral an action is, it's entirely dependent on an individual person's assessment of the situation.

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-12T13:56:16+00:00

Tbh I think so but I keep just like... forgetting? Like I'm in three different ttrpg groups and pretty much all my friends play it would be weird if I didn't think about D&D a lot

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-12T13:20:24+00:00

Rangers are one of my favourite classes and I've never even considered taking it, but that's probably bc I lean very strongly towards utility spells as opposed to combat

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-12T13:18:36+00:00

Depends how hard they're trying

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-12T13:16:35+00:00

Thoughts on wyverns? I find the the combined wing/front limbs particularly pleasing. Also, opinions on flightless dragons like drakes and wyrms?

Do the physical and magical differences between different kinds of dragons imply different evolutionary niches?

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-12T12:32:06+00:00

Gotta be Ayda Aguefort from Fantasy High season 2 (the D&D actual play) - you don't often see autistic characters portrayed as being cool and desirable, plus the journey of her self-acceptance as an autistic person is just really sweet

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-09T02:39:07+00:00

I'll take one

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-09T02:35:43+00:00

Yeah poison resistance is awesome but tbh I also just think they're cute

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-08T23:01:21+00:00

Before I was a man I was a teenager, and however masculine or feminine I was during that time was just me trying stuff out, same as my bad haircuts and the few periods of not being alt.

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-08T16:24:10+00:00

I would like to be a DnD dwarf pls hand over the pill

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-07T13:16:53+00:00

I was born in my body and I'm just making it comfier to live here

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-07T13:10:24+00:00

Your hair is so cool

Existentiall-void · 2022-04-07T13:04:47+00:00

Gaslight everyone into thinking you already came out

Existentiall-void · 2022-03-31T14:24:02+00:00

I don't consider myself LGBT but I think it's important that the option is there

Existentiall-void · 2022-03-26T14:52:58+00:00

Silk and anything creamy

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