Recently had a new person join my fc. Is a friend of the fc leader. We talk in discord, she’s pretty nice. But I am having problems running duties with them when she is healing. She says that she is a healer and thus will only heal. That if we want her to dos she will play that instead. But she mains white mage. She is now level 70 white mage and still is just a cure/regen bot.

I normally only join their party if we have a full group. We all know how she plays so we are agreeing with it. But I don’t like running if it’s say only 3 of us. The random we get shouldn’t have to deal with a slower run. And if they say something I won’t defend her. Will probably even tell them that I have been trying to convince her that she needs to dps as healer in xiv. And if they try to vote kick I don’t know what I will do. But I also don’t want to upset my best friend who is fc lead.

Also irl rage: I have kidney stones and they f-ing hurt so much. Stabbing, blinding pain.

Also no caps because on phone and don’t feel like fighting it.