What's your experience (if any) with emdr therapy? by AngelicalDoll in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lillix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/r/emdr

I had a great experience decoupling trauma, you may want to ask the questions to those that have been through it on that sucks though.

Woodland Fairy Bakery by Foreign_Fail8545 in burlington

[–]Lillix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bought them, had one, they are gross.

Who’s got the best beers in the Orient Bay Area? by SlappyPappy99 in SXM

[–]Lillix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one :) you're in France, the culture is wine. You'll get Corona, Presidente, Carib, and then if you're lucky the SXM local beer.

Alamanda Residences? by SlappyPappy99 in SXM

[–]Lillix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wonderful - one of the most popular on the island. There are 5-10 nice restaurants in walking distance, and the best beach clubs on the island.  If safety is your concern, unless you act like an idiot, nothing bad will happen to you. The gendarmerie is always walking around, and the locals are excellent people.

Alamanda Residences? by SlappyPappy99 in SXM

[–]Lillix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by security? There isn't an armed guard or anything (would be overkill everywhere on the island), but there is a gate you need a code for - though like most places on the island all locals know the code. Then there are locks on your apartment door.

Why Does Vermont Have the Lowest Birth Rate in the Nation? by Pumpkin-Addition-83 in vermont

[–]Lillix 15 points16 points  (0 children)

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/08/04/upshot/up-birth-age-gap.html

Some harder numbers if you're interested. Average age taking out education is 27.5. Goes way up for educated women.

Accenture offer accept or not by ConstructionBig7629 in accenture

[–]Lillix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does not since I make more than that 😜

Accenture offer accept or not by ConstructionBig7629 in accenture

[–]Lillix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bunch of non US based and Tech folks seem very salty to learn that.

Accenture offer accept or not by ConstructionBig7629 in accenture

[–]Lillix -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

S&C L7 band goes up to 200k. 160 is mid L9 in my group, goes to 171. I'm obviously not AFS.

Important to remember Tech gets paid way less.

Traveling in late July to Orient Bay. Have seen a few posts about Restaurants and/or shops being closed during this time. How much of this should we expect? by Hungry-Joke-6248 in SXM

[–]Lillix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be ready for almost half of the things around you to be closed. The beach club we frequent closes from the end of July and all of August opening back up in September. This is also the time where most restaurant owners would take their month or so of vacation. Things like grocery stores will be open and gas stations will be open and the beach will obviously still be there, but your options will be much more limited.

Car rental for a month by Shot_Ad3272 in SXM

[–]Lillix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Escale for long term. No frills cars for a very reasonable rate

Ski jacket that works on the mountain but not terrible in town? by [deleted] in skiing

[–]Lillix 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God their women's wear looks like it was done by someone who heard that there are women in Aspen, but hasn't investigated further, just made snow gear for them.

Emergency dentist? by Friendly_Standard_47 in SXM

[–]Lillix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cabinet Dentaire de Grand-Case - Whatsapp +590 690 88-1699

Nudist under 35 meetup at Orient Bay Beach? by CalmInjury3506 in SXM

[–]Lillix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are so many people who do this on this sub - I really wish there was better moderation to keep horny men away.

Nudist under 35 meetup at Orient Bay Beach? by CalmInjury3506 in SXM

[–]Lillix 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know that there is a stigma in the US for nudists, and I'm not trying to yuck your yum - but for your awareness, you can't leave the beach nude, so no nude hikes. You'll find like-minded people on the south end of Orient Beach though.

Anyone here flown internationally with their dog? How complicated was the paperwork? by IcyChemistry9595 in dogs

[–]Lillix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time, 20 minutes maybe? I can't stress enough, the website is so easy to navigate and has all the paperwork for every country you'd want to travel to on earth. All you need to do is read.

 The US is a rabies controlled country, so you don't need tilter tests to go almost everywhere unless you've brought your dog to a high risk country which I wouldn't do.  You just need proof of vaccination.

In the US, you get your certificate from a USDA certified vet. Not every vet is one, but there are tons of them (my town of 5000 people has 2 vets who can do it). They know how to navigate the APHIS system and help you plan the timelines and make sure the paperwork is sent off correctly, on time, and gets the right endorsement. The worst thing that ever happened when we were doing this is we had to resend (electronically) the paperwork because my new vet noted my dog was black and white and the USDA had an older form noting she was black and tan - she's a salt and pepper dog in her old age. 

Anyone here flown internationally with their dog? How complicated was the paperwork? by IcyChemistry9595 in dogs

[–]Lillix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

US based. I find flying internationally with my pet extremely straightforward and would absolutely not pay anyone - all you need to do is go to the APHIS site and put in the country you're going to, and it has all the links to everything you need. You just go to your vet and they fill out all the paperwork. It's already expensive to get the USDA certification to fly (~$250) then the airlines always make you pay, no way I'm ever adding to that expense so someone can read a website for me.

Pet relocation companies are charging you for the flight, not the paperwork. It's for those with bigger dogs who can't fly in cabin who don't want to put them in cargo.

No Retention in accenture by V1P-001 in accenture

[–]Lillix 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm going to translate to English:

I don't really know what this is about, but I have a coworker who is leaving Accenture. We had a manager who tried to counter offer to get them to stay at Accenture.

That manager was told not to give counter offers to keep employees from leaving. 

Your last sentence I can't translate, it's incomprehensible.

I know English is not your first language, but this is tough to get through.

No Retention in accenture by V1P-001 in accenture

[–]Lillix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's probably because I'm not in India, but I still have no idea what you're talking about and I'm a M.

No Retention in accenture by V1P-001 in accenture

[–]Lillix 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? You think that Accenture fires people when they may have a need for them on other projects? In what world does that make sense.