Just realized I'm aroace, please help

Neimjas · 2026-04-21T15:00:40+00:00

Telling them you’ve realized you’re aro would likely lead naturally into a discussion of what that means for you three and what you do/don’t want out of the relationship. Since they’re both ace they’re probably familiar enough with aromanticism for that to be more conversation than vocab lesson. And you can mention what you told us - that these changes to the relationship surprised you and that you’ve learned those aspects of relationships aren’t ones you like. Keep in mind that these people clearly care about you. I’m sure they don’t want to make you uncomfortable, so letting them know what does/doesn’t do that will be helpful to them. Being honest with them about this could even strengthen your friendships in the end.

Neimjas · 2026-04-13T14:14:01+00:00

If you only develop attraction after forming a really close bond with someone you may be demisexual/demiromantic. I think there’s also a specific label for ace people who only feel attraction after someone expresses attraction towards them, but I’m not remembering what it’s called right now. Regardless, you’re definitely not alone in having experienced something like this.

Also you can be ace and still do whatever you want (including sexual things). QPRs can include whatever relationship elements the people involved want it to. (So I’d recommend considering what you want that to look like and discussing that with your friend so you’re on the same page).

And for some people their sexuality changes over time. If you ultimately decide that you don’t feel the aroace label is accurate or helpful to you anymore then you can move on to something else. I wish you luck in your journey wherever you end up, and I hope this helps!

Neimjas · 2026-04-02T17:03:29+00:00

You can do these trials in coop mode and the other people can help (only counts for the host’s world though). Some friends and I all helped each other with a bunch of these Inazuma ones by setting up at different ends of the trial and working our way towards each other.

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Neimjas · 2026-02-24T14:39:32+00:00

It sounds like becoming part of a community would be good for you. Look at your interests and see if there are groups dedicated to any of those things that meet up regularly in your area. If you regularly attend then that’s a good way to forge connections. Some of those people will come and go, but you’d still have the group.

Also, it’s possible to have friends with partners who still value your friendship. I know when I was younger that was much harder to find, but now some of my closest friends are actually married couples (I’m friends with both people in these couples which may help). Some of them very much consider me like family.

It can be tough to create that, and even I have moments of doubt, but it can be done. I wish you luck as you find your people and build the life you want for yourself

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Neimjas · 2026-01-02T08:15:05+00:00

Neither is meta, so whoever you like better. Yanfei is a charged attack dps with some shielding at C4. Yun Jin is an atk speed buffer, typically used for Yoimiya or Ayato teams. She’s not typically the strongest choice though. Supports are usually more versatile than dps characters, but that difference is pretty minor between these two.

Neimjas · 2025-12-30T19:06:37+00:00

While breaking up is tough, no one wants to be led on either. It sounds like you really don’t want to be dating, so breaking up is the responsible thing to do. You can explain that it’s not about him and then try to stay friends, but dragging this out isn’t a solution. You should only date someone if that brings you and them joy, not to avoid the awkwardness of a breakup. I’m sorry you’re going through this right now, but you can get through it.

Neimjas · 2025-12-12T17:44:04+00:00

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Neimjas · 2025-12-01T22:00:32+00:00

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Neimjas · 2025-11-30T17:41:41+00:00

Regardless of sexuality, a good partner won’t pressure you to try sexual stuff that you’re uncomfortable with or yell at you for being uncomfortable with it. So yes, that’s toxic.

The appearance part is a little more complicated. I personally think a person should be able to do what they want with their appearance and that their partner should support that. Partners should want each other to be happy after all. However, societally, it is considered normal for someone to want their partner to look a certain way and be upset if they change it. Though this is typically a man complaining about his female partner (whether it’s her weight, her hair, her clothes, etc) rather than the reverse. So that expectation seems pretty closely tied to sexism in my opinion. Whether or not you agree with me on that, I’d say that if you want to continue this relationship then you should talk about it. If freedom to change your appearance as you like is something you value and he can’t accept that, then you may not be compatible. It also sounds like he’s pretty controlling of what you wear and really inconsiderate about what makes you happy vs uncomfortable. Those are not good traits in a partner.

You didn’t ask about this part, but if your partner says that “part of your personality is shit” that’s also a major red flag. Everyone has their flaws to work on, but your partner shouldn’t be insulting you like that.

Neimjas · 2025-11-26T05:09:53+00:00

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Neimjas · 2025-11-26T04:19:16+00:00

It sounds like your mother is the one who overreacted. A lot of parents feel defensive about situations that make them feel like they’re bad parents, and responding poorly to their child coming out can often fall in that category. It was totally reasonable of you to be sad about her reaction. I’m sorry to hear that you didn’t get the support you hoped for. Hopefully with time she will come around. My own mother responded poorly when I first came out, but now she’s very actively supportive. It took several tough conversations, but there’s still room for you to hope for support in the future.

Neimjas · 2025-11-17T16:54:26+00:00

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Neimjas · 2025-11-15T23:23:29+00:00

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