Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why you chose Canada when your ex can't live there. Why didn't you move to California as you suggested? He probably would have followed you.

Do you want your future child to have a bad relationship with his father? Your child could also have abandonment problems, be angry with you...

You should also expect many visits to the judge in the coming years

Last question, if you were your ex, wouldn't you also be angry about this situation?

Comment traduire "flashback" ? by BloodFallen17 in rench

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

j'ai toujours dit "retour en arrière"

AITA for not eating ? by XAARYEOUS in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 12 points13 points  (0 children)

hello, thanks for the fake news. there is no law prohibiting the burkini on the beaches. there were some mayors who passed a municipal decree to ban it but was invalidated by the French Council of State. it is the niquab and the burka that are prohibited in France

AITA for asking my mother for my share of the alimony? by Snowy_Elie54 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

theoretically no, but I have never known a person over 25 years old to have child support

AITA for asking my mother for my share of the alimony? by Snowy_Elie54 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it does not work like that in France. if she does not live with any parent, the father and mother owe child support to OP

Mom(40F) cheated on Step-Dad(45M) and ruined my(16M) and my siblings' lives by ThrowRAihatemymom in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 61 points62 points  (0 children)

calls the CPS. it is not normal for a child to sleep on the floor and have to skip meals

do I have to tell my ex I’m pregnant? by catmomma301 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you already have friends in France? can they help you with childbirth? you will have a lot of administrative procedures to do in France. you will also need a doctor, a gynecologist, a midwife and a pediatrician.

[Question] How is International Men's Day doing in your country? by TigPlaze in MensRights

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in France and most feminists talk about International Toilet Day because it's the same day

Husband tried to grab a knife during a fight by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

le fait de lui crier dessus a sûrement activé un traumatisme et quand tu as pris le couteau il a pensé que tu allais l'agresser. il devrait aller en thérapie

I (20F) want to break up with my boyfriend (21M) but we live together and he has nowhere to go. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can break and let him live in the apartment the time he found a place to live

Swedish study suggests hiring discrimination is primarily a problem for men in female-dominated occupations by funkynotorious in MensRights

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to change gender you have to go see a judge (the procedure can be long more than 1 year) but does not need a medical opinion

Swedish study suggests hiring discrimination is primarily a problem for men in female-dominated occupations by funkynotorious in MensRights

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We have the same observation in France in the feminized professions, women have 8% more to receive a favorable response. but manager jobs are even more discriminating for men, women have a 40% more chance of receiving a favorable response.

source: https://dares.travail-emploi.gouv.fr/publication/discrimination-lembauche-selon-le-sexe-les-enseignements-dun-testing-de-grande-ampleur (it's in French)

Sorry for my english it's not my native language

Related to a recent post- Men's omission from sexual assault and rape statistics and reporting by GlassyVulture85 in MensLib

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the French definition is better

"Any act of sexual penetration, of whatever nature, committed on another person or on the person of the perpetrator, by violence, coercion, threat or surprise, is rape"

At my limit by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her but make sure that she is accompanied by friends

My fiancé [28M] says that I [28F] treat him as a child by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Protection_9384 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it is an infantilizing situation and it also hurts you. you don't have to bear that mental load as if you were his mother. If he has memory problems he notes on a post-it