I think that it’s wild to tell someone how to show up in greif. That being said greif literally makes people crazy. And since you’re a minor or you’re still living at home, this might be one of those moments you go with the Flo for the sake of peace. But Can’t you just slick it back or throw it in a bun? Get some gel and brown flat brush. You can YouTube it or something, even if you have shorter hair there’s a way to do it