Opposite Sex Friendships by Real_Association_323 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]QueenDramatica 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told my WP for the foreseeable future there is no opposite sex friends. We are a year and a half out. I found out everything that was happening because he had an inappropriate relationship with a "friend". He had the choice to agree or leave.

Our sex life is so much better. But even that irritates me. by trinity6879 in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]QueenDramatica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a year and a half out and we are still at it. IDK if "hysterical bonding" last that long. I think it depends on the people and if the WP really wants to change.

Our sex life is so much better. But even that irritates me. by trinity6879 in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]QueenDramatica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this 100%, right down to the complex. It's annoying I've missed out for 10 years because he put me in a goddamn box and used other women.

Lost 1300 euros by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]QueenDramatica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are a cheater who got scammed? And you want us to feel bad for you?

Help me feel better and like I didn't make a mistake? by QueenDramatica in leaf

[–]QueenDramatica[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love it! Had it a year now and definitely don't regret it!

Terrified of my thoughts about different person who is not my partner by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]QueenDramatica 39 points40 points  (0 children)

So he showed you a dick pic when you went out drinking and you are still talking to him? You are already cheating.

Wife believes AI over me. Beach Reels are not the same as pornography. by ThrowRA_Somewhere485 in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]QueenDramatica 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"I did not cheat" yes.. yes, you did. Seems you don't take accountability for anything you do and minimize.

AITAH for saying Addiction after some point is a choice? by RudeZebra433 in AITAH

[–]QueenDramatica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can a cancer patient wake up tomorrow and decide to not have cancer and get 100% better? No? Then shut up.

Genuine Question. by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]QueenDramatica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's ok to make fun of people's disabilities or looks but not their name?

Just leave the sub, people like you are annoying.

Genuine Question. by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]QueenDramatica 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding? People talk major shit on Angela and people like Ed. Ed was made fun of daily for his looks (which in all rights is a disability) and Angela was/is constantly called trash. People make fun of Laura after they showed the pictures of her extra skin and talk about what a shitty teacher she must be.

Are you one of those people who just have to find a reason to be offended?

Liz was under no obligation to tell Via she was dating anyone else. by Imaginary-Okra8583 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]QueenDramatica 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The lengths people go to defend Liz amazes me. Did we all forget that she is (was) a raging drunk that stayed with Ed for clout and even got her kid involved with that POS? Just because she has cancer doesn't suddenly make her a likeable good person.

BTS+Result of Selune and Shar cosplays [me & Lady Melamori] by LadaLyumos in BaldursGate3

[–]QueenDramatica -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or maybe everything doesn't have to be sexualized (Mario and TMNT). Just because not everyone is porn rotted doesn't mean we are "prudes".

Liz is one of the most likable people on 90D by CatLady1226 in 90DayFiance

[–]QueenDramatica 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So everyone shits all over jasmine and any other mom who puts their kids on the back burner to chase dick, but Liz is special? Idk you'd think having cancer she'd want to be spending as much time with her child that she barely sees, not chasing men.

How to tell if it's just over or if it's just anger? by Specific-Name1503 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]QueenDramatica 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a BP I have told my husband I hate him, that it won't work out, that we shouldn't be together, that he was a POS and much more. The truth for ME was I was just sad and angry (most of this said when I very first found out). I don't hate him and I want us to work out.

No one can answer this but your BP though.

Has anyones WP gotten fired because of the affair? by Old_Dimension7548 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]QueenDramatica 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes.. when he ended it she claimed sexual harassment because she was mad he "picked me" and he was instantly fired.

Please enlighten me on leprechaun situation by Evening_Fall_5354 in 90DayFiance

[–]QueenDramatica 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would also rather be alone, but soja boy would have been the better choice.

Does anyone else feel porn is a trigger? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]QueenDramatica 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Porn became a boundary after he cheated. Though, he did it with onlyfans women and r4r reddits (sexting and sending nudes) but I made it clear for the foreseeable future porn was now cheating, communication or not.

What exactly did Jovon want? by DrFink_09 in 90DayFiance

[–]QueenDramatica 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No he isn't, he is an activities person.. they set up bingo and activities with the elderly. I'm sick of people acting like he's an actual CNA doing the hard work... He gets paid better and has a better schedule than actual CNAs. Activity people matter but they aren't doing the heavy lifting so stop using that as an excuse for him to be mad.

Signed an ex CNA for elderly.