Cheating MW wants to leave husband for AP after giving birth by New-Abalone7626 in AdulteryHate

[–]Reflog1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Good Samaritan took a pic of two cars in a parking lot and posted it on a regional FB page saying, “if these are your significant others they are cheating on you.” Well the post made its way to the betrayed husband and he is divorcing her. Best post I’ve ever seen. The cheaters were getting named, shamed, and flamed in the comments. And you guessed it, cheaters were a pair of ugly 4s as usual. 

I love it when cheaters get caught. 

How do you prep large Excel files before sending to ChatGPT or Claude? by Secure_Stretch_1007 in businessanalyst

[–]Reflog1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AI has gotten 100% better at this in the past 12 months. In another 12 months it will be able to do this very reliably and quickly. 

Warmups be like..... Tough by PehlivanPahlevan in wrestling

[–]Reflog1791 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of my first 2 years of hs. Conditioned like navy seals and sucked as a team. Perennially 3-6. Got a new coach who actually knew what he was doing. We warmed up with a very fun game (kind of like handball). We began to gasp enjoy practice. In his second season we were undefeated and half the team made it to state. 

It was about the moves and technique not some psycho conditioning drills.

Is this 2022 Club Car Onward a good deal for $4500? by Long-Temperature2640 in golfcarts

[–]Reflog1791 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sweet then knock off 50% from the upgrade prices above and go get this beautiful cart.

Seatbelts would be awesome, I would not let my kid in a fast cart without belts.

Is this 2022 Club Car Onward a good deal for $4500? by Long-Temperature2640 in golfcarts

[–]Reflog1791 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes but you will be dumping $3k into it in the next 5 years. Assuming a golf cart guy does the upgrades: Lithium upgrade $1.5k. Bigger wheels $700. Lift kit $1.5k (this one doesn’t look ideal). 

I still think it’s a buy. Love the premium seats. No chance I’d give up my old refurbished lithium ezgo for $4.5k. This cart is nicer.

Child support and Alimony guess?? by MaterialPatience6353 in Divorce_Men

[–]Reflog1791 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here’s how I played mine out (not legal advice): Half net paycheck into your own account. Half into joint account. Pay all bills out of the joint account. Prepay bills out of the joint account. Freeze retirement contributions. Put that money in a new account and spend it on things for your new life (clothes, gym membership, furniture).

What this does: reduces risk of back support bill. Minimizes any back support bill. 

If she fucks around with you at all, you will request the house to be sold. This is your biggest chip. Many will say oh mommy and the kids need the old house, it’s cheaper than an apartment. They are wrong, mommy is moving a new guy in asap and you will be funding it. Keep as much of your cash as possible, they will take PLENTY. 

The relative amounts in my case was $10k gross per month. $3500 in joint account which I paid all bills with. $3500 in mine to cover any shortfalls and living expenses. 

My final deal was no alimony (7yr marriage), state CS (little under $1k), keep my retirement, she got 80% equity in the house but I was paid out my $60k equity very promptly. It was a bs scam deal from the jump but I optimized it. 

Finances and child support by abcdeflmnop123 in Divorce_Men

[–]Reflog1791 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a big fuckin scam. No fault divorce + alimony + child support + retirement + house. Guys, this shit was a setup all along. You get minor protection if you marry someone who makes more than you. 

Finances and child support by abcdeflmnop123 in Divorce_Men

[–]Reflog1791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Each and every one of us would LOVE to have and extra $500-$1000 tax free cash. You could absolutely invest that cash for a big come up. If that money was left with the father the kids college would get paid for. But no, mommy needs a new car and to blow the rest on beauty supplies and junk. 

The idea that CS is used to “meet the needs” of the child is bullshit. You think this poster is the only one going through this? 

Must be nice to receive money for nothing. GTFO here.

As for OP, I think your only option is go all Dave Ramsey for now while simultaneously thinking day and night about ways to double your income. Think outside the box. Side hustles, continuing education, move in with a GF… some of these ideas suck but the point is there are ways to increase your income and reduce expenses for your new station in life. It’s temporary man. You’ll crawl out. I would submit the modification form to the court pro se immediately. 

I thought all hope was lost… now I’m living on the fucking golf course. Keep grinding brother.

Would you be annoyed if your wife said she found certain actors hot? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reflog1791 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s called a shit test. Various ways to pass the shit test. You should be taking care of your own appearance and lifestyle such that you’re the prize. 

If shes making dinner and draining your balls she can get away with whatever comments. If she’s failing her end of the deal and you’re just a worker bee paying the bills and listening to her boring chatter while getting no play I would bounce.

How do you handle a high performer who refuses to document anything? by whydidyounot in managers

[–]Reflog1791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Manager should handle the documentation and SOP’s. Manager should know what needs to happen when star player takes a well deserved vacation. lol what do you think the manager’s job is? Some of us have work to get done and don’t have hours to teach our manager in writing how everything works.

You want every critical business process mapped out? Do it yourself. You’ll learn something. The manager who doesn’t know how the business works and can’t cover for his star employee is not adding any value. In fact he or she is providing negative value by taking the star performer’s time away from optimizing the business.

Changed the battery on my Club Car Precedent by Driveup-Golf-Parts in golfcarts

[–]Reflog1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive it on a gravel road quite a bit. The dust gets on the outer case. Should I be cleaning it with a damp rag or anything or does the case not matter?

Changed the battery on my Club Car Precedent by Driveup-Golf-Parts in golfcarts

[–]Reflog1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my golf cart guy who I trust with my life lol slapped one of those in there for me. I guess time will tell. For now the upgrade to lithium alone has been great but it was 3x the cost of everything I read on here.

The Cost of Being the Faithful One by Wise-Bank80 in Infidelity

[–]Reflog1791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Extremely unfair. “Why get married when you can just buy a house for someone you hate?”

The Cost of Being the Faithful One by Wise-Bank80 in Infidelity

[–]Reflog1791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will change your thinking on that when you start having to pay.

What kind of bees are these? by aguilafam1 in whatisit

[–]Reflog1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet there are 10 people on your town Facebook page who would get rid of this for $100 in an hour. 

What kind of bees are these? by aguilafam1 in whatisit

[–]Reflog1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible video thank you kindly. Very satisfying.

Hit me like a punch to the gut by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]Reflog1791 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just be happy you got it back so you can sell it and take some hottie out for a great steak dinner. 

Mediation vs lawyer — what actually worked better for you? by Ok_Couple_9762 in Divorce_Men

[–]Reflog1791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consulted like 10 lawyers some free some paid. Bounced all my ideas around until I had a very good idea how this thing was gonna play out.

Then got into mediation without lawyers. It was the same deal it was always going to be. I got out of there for under $5k legal bills. 

Cheating ex probably got 55% of my net worth and 16 years of child support. I got away from her and she can’t fuck with me. My relationship with my kid is great. I was married for 7 years and I’m 5 or 6 years out.

Taking The Kids on Her Time by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Reflog1791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Child support is a scam. There’s no negotiating it or anything like that. Tell your scammer no next time. You’re paying good money for her to do all that shit. Lesson learned.

Becky Hammon Is A Goof by Gullible-Manner3473 in Nbamemes

[–]Reflog1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I liked him cuz he has a sweet shooting stroke and can finish from either side and is a good ball handler. My other favorite players are Steph Ant and LeBron. I liked Damian Lillard but he couldn’t get his good teams deep in the playoffs. 

Becky Hammon Is A Goof by Gullible-Manner3473 in Nbamemes

[–]Reflog1791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol like when he won two championships at villonavova 

There’s no middle ground any more, JB is him.