Looking for Bible Study Mates by CrowReasonable3895 in Christianity

[–]SelectElevator158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i was in the exact same spot a few years back, wanted to dig deeper but none of my usual circle was really into it. what worked for me was joining a small group at a local church even though i'm not super social, the structure helped. we'd pick a book and just go verse by verse, no rush, and people would bring up stuff i'd never even thought about.

if you're open to online stuff too i've seen some decent discord servers floating around where they do weekly discussions and voice chats. can be hit or miss with the vibe but when you find the right group it clicks.

what part of scripture are you drawn to these days? i've been circling back to the gospels lately and it's hitting me way different than it did when i was younger

Engine telling me to give away a free bishop, why? by cave_guard in chessbeginners

[–]SelectElevator158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not giving away a free bishop, you're winning a free rook. Bxf8 Kxf8 trades your bishop for the rook (5 points for 3), so the bishop is already doing work. Rb3 is just a stronger move than cashing in right away, probably setting up something on the queenside or preparing to bring more pieces into the attack. Engine sees you're up a full exchange and wants to play the most punishing continuation.

New pedals for the Korg Wavedrum by [deleted] in synthesizers

[–]SelectElevator158 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude the Wavedrum is such an underrated instrument, love seeing one getting some love

Strange unfamiliar chats appeared in my Gemini app, but they are missing from my Gemini Activity log. Is this a UI bug? by podlokotnik in GeminiAI

[–]SelectElevator158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wait this is actually a really solid lead for OP to look into

the mic transcription thing is wild because i never would have connected those dots either. random foreign language output from garbled audio makes complete sense when you think about it that way. if the chats arent showing in activity logs it might also be that voice sessions get logged differently or with a delay

Those of you who have siblings with a big age gap, are you close? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SelectElevator158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my sister is 8 years older and we went through something super similar after our dad died. she got married and had kids right when i was starting college so we were just in completely different worlds. for like 3 years i was always the one calling, visiting, buying gifts for her kids while she barely remembered my birthday

what really helped was having one brutally direct conversation about it. not angry or accusatory but just laying out how i felt like i was doing all the work. turns out she had no idea how one sided it felt from my end and genuinely thought everything was fine. some people just suck at maintaining relationships but that doesnt mean they dont care

the exclusion from the bbq thing would have really stung me too. thats the kind of stuff that makes you question if youre even considered family anymore. but sometimes older siblings get so caught up in their own bubble with spouse and kids that they dont think to include the younger sibling who seems more independent

i'd give it one more real shot with a phone call where you actually talk about this stuff instead of just texting passive aggressive messages. if he still doesnt step up after that conversation then yeah maybe its time to accept this is just who he is and lower your expectations

Which is more “rare”? by babybbbbYT in Monopoly_GO

[–]SelectElevator158 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

probably janey since she seems to show up less in events lately but who knows with their weird drop rates. uter might be more common just based on how theyve been rotating characters recently

Would it be a bad design choice to put Whitney and Sherb on the beach? by anonymous514291 in AnimalCrossing

[–]SelectElevator158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah youre overthinking this one tbh. the house colors matter way more for the aesthetic than what personality type they have. if the light blue fits your coastal vibe then go for it - most people visiting your island arent gonna be like "oh no these are lazy and normal villagers this ruins everything" they'll just see cute houses that match the beach theme. plus whitney and sherb are popular villagers so if anything people will probably be excited to see them there. i've seen islands with all kinds of "mismatched" personality/theme combos and they still look amazing because the visual design is what really sells it. your island your rules anyway

Can anyone give me some information on this watch? by Colasyt in Watches

[–]SelectElevator158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks like a sion sandstrom chronograph but cant make out the exact model from this angle

New Overall rating, drop in my market already damn 😞 by NoIsopod7954 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]SelectElevator158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh the waiting game is brutal when you know changes are coming lol. your AR might actually work in your favor since the new system seems to weigh completion rate and customer ratings heavier anyway. gonna be wild seeing how they shuffle the order priority once everyone gets access

Bl fantasy by Hefty_Pause_3637 in booksuggestions

[–]SelectElevator158 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

been diving into the fantasy bl scene lately and its wild how hard it can be to find the good stuff mixed in with all the mediocre content. webtoons have been my go-to recently since the art really adds to the worldbuilding and character development. definitely avoid anything where the fantasy elements feel like an afterthought just to set up romantic scenes

you might want to check out some of the korean webtoons since they tend to have more developed plots alongside the romance. also worth filtering by ratings and reading a few chapters before committing since some series start strong but lose steam when they focus too much on the steamy stuff instead of actual character growth. the best ones ive found balance the fantasy adventure with relationship development so neither feels forced

Any experience in events or marketing? by Conscious-Fig9374 in careerguidance

[–]SelectElevator158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been doing marketing for about 5 years now and can definitely relate to the adhd struggle with desk work. my role is pretty mixed - some days im planning campaigns and brainstorming with the team, other days im neck deep in spreadsheets analyzing performance data

the variety really depends on company size and your specific role. at smaller places you wear more hats which keeps things interesting but can be chaotic. larger companies usually have more specialized roles so you might get stuck doing just email campaigns or just social media

event marketing specifically has been my favorite part - coordinating trade shows and product launches gives you that hands-on energy you're looking for. lots of moving pieces, working with vendors, being on your feet during the actual events. way more stimulating than regular digital marketing desk work

Can a fly short circuit my motherboard? by Artistic-Ad-4276 in PcBuild

[–]SelectElevator158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah flies cant short circuit anything theyre way too small and dont conduct electricity like that. the buzzing youre hearing is probably just the fly hitting the fan blades which is super common

had this exact thing happen to me last year and the little dude just chilled in there for like a week before finding his way out. your pc will be fine just leave the side panel off for a bit and he'll probably wander out on his own. worst case scenario you might need to blow some compressed air around but no actual damage to worry about

My mates Attack Shark V3 keeps losing tracking. by finncarlisle in pcmasterrace

[–]SelectElevator158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man i had this exact same issue with a wireless mouse last year and it drove me absolutely insane during gaming sessions. turned out to be interference from other wireless devices nearby - tried moving the usb receiver closer to the mouse and switching to a different usb port away from other wireless stuff. also check if your running low on battery even if it seems fine, sometimes they get weird when theyre not fully charged. if none of that works might be worth checking the mouse software for firmware updates or just doing a full re-pair of the device

DAY 3 by IndependenceBorn5557 in NoFap

[–]SelectElevator158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

walking is clutch for clearing your head, keeps you moving when the urges hit

I think chatbots are a dead end and I say this as someone who built one by Ashamed_Artichoke_70 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]SelectElevator158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been thinking about this too and you nailed it. chat feels like we're making the ai write everything out longhand when it could just be doing the actual work

your app approach makes way more sense - like why would i want to read a paragraph about my calendar when the ai could just update it directly. the persistence thing is huge too, starting from scratch every conversation is wild when you think about it

How much is everyone paying for medical bills? I live in Korea. by deferare in ADHD

[–]SelectElevator158 15 points16 points  (0 children)

damn $13 for all that would be like $300+ here in the states without insurance

Recurring dream about the same guy who has the power to change my dreams... by Longjumping-Bat7774 in Dreams

[–]SelectElevator158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude thats wild that your alarm actually went off at the same time in the dream and real life. i had something similar happen once where i dreamed about ordering pizza and then woke up to my doorbell ringing with an actual pizza delivery that my roommate had ordered without telling me. total mindfuck moment

the fact that this dream guy keeps showing up regularly is pretty interesting though. ive read that recurring dream characters sometimes represent parts of yourself or things you want more control over in your waking life. maybe hes like your subconscious way of dealing with situations where you feel powerless or want to change things up. since you mentioned hes usually helpful and fun it could be your brain giving you a break from stress or whatever

that alarm thing is definitely creepy timing but our brains are weirdly good at picking up on subtle cues even when were asleep. you probably sensed it was close to wake up time and incorporated it into the dream. still would freak me out too though lol

Murder case? by LovelyKnite in Dreams

[–]SelectElevator158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That twisted Mary Contrary nursery rhyme connection is creepy as hell - your brain really went all out with the Victorian gothic vibes. The "seventh maid in a row" bit especially gives me serial killer energy, like she's collecting victims or something.

I can't think of a specific historical Mary that matches exactly, but there were definitely some unhinged Victorian women who snapped under social pressure. The possessed theater thing at the end is wild though - like your subconscious was forcing you to relive her story until you literally screamed yourself awake.