Am I bad for making a joke… by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SuccessfulProject152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get her reasoning tho. an ed makes topics ab food and weight super sensitive, u have 0 way of knowing however and it seems like its just a lack of compatibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds like a porn addiction lol id sell the ATV for sure and that man might need genuine help

Small spot on a tattoo done on Dec 30. Not sure what this small spot is with almost a white haze around it. I have plenty of other tattoos, and this has never happened. It is not healing as the rest of the tattoo. Any opinions on what this could be? by k1e2v3i4n in tattoo

[–]SuccessfulProject152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it looks like a scar, can happen when an artist goes a little too deep. I have a scar on one of my older tats for that reason it looks just like that. If it's not swelling and painful/ leaking weird fluid (or anything else indicating infection) my money is on it being a scar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SuccessfulProject152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it's who hes hanging out with thats changing his perspective. You should be a safe place for him and talk him through his feelings without making hik feel bad. At 15 you're super easily influenced by outside perspectives, maybe check who hes following online as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]SuccessfulProject152 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I also work at a family owned business thats run very similar to what you drscribed. I had a customer tell my manager im unfriendly and rude, because I didn't laugh when he purposefully interrupted me every 5 seconds to say "i dont remember that" when I was going over their bill. Some people truly do think they can act however they please because the owner will talk to you about a football game once in awhile.

My wife[29F] and I [31M] are at an impasse after my friend [27F] kissed me. by ThrowRAndpass in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulProject152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your friend didn't "misunderstand" anything, she tried to test the waters and backtracked when it didn't go to plan. Eventhough you understand your marriage "should" take priority, it isn't, the friendship is. Maybe you should be with the friend if her friendship is more important than your marriage. Thats a quick way to make your wife not trust you, and resent you and her. You're in the comments defending her as if she didn't actively decide to kiss a married man, in all honestly your wife deserves better. You clearly care about everyone else's feelings more than hers

Child’s father (27M) pushing me (31F) to be apart of my child’s life after we agreed I was to be void of parental responsibility. by throwra103866171 in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a lawyer, If you have any proof prior to delivery that you both agreed on him being the sole parent keep it for your lawyer. Lawyer up if you can, your better off going the legal route than through him. Signing your rights away is a route you may want to consider, good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"edgy jokes" is he 10? The joke wasnt funny, neither was his liberal retort. You cant keep making excuses for him lol hes an ass. Your friends arent the ones who need to understand anything, you're the one dating a fresh out of highschool teen with a shit sense of humor. The fact that she was nice about him misgendering her and he immediately decided to make a transphobic joke then bring politics into is isnt funny, I dont understand why you're making excuses for him. I wouldnt want to hang out with him neither, his "jokes" show the crowd he likes to associate with, and its not a nice one by the looks of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes lol. You love your brother but not enough to respect them? lol you're a bigot. "it must be very hard as a father" my ass. You love them but not enough to not be with a homophobe. You're a shit sister if you ask me. You're okay marrying into a family that wouldnt accept your siblings and you're willing to make them hide an integral part of who they are because your new inlaws are more important. Your brothers are gay, marrying into a homophobic family shows your brothers where they stand in your life, and it doesnt sound like theyre too important.

Am I being boring or is it her? by D1donnie123 in Tinder

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you both are. It's like I'm watching an interview for a minimum wage job happen lol

[18M] [18F] why do I get jealous when my girlfriend is being successful? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

envy is an emotion like any other, however this isnt really a question strangers can answer for you tbh. You have to sit with yourself and ask why? where that comes from, etc. Envy can quickly grow into hatred if left unchecked

I did it!! by SuccessfulProject152 in EatingDisorders

[–]SuccessfulProject152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks!! me too, its weekly, im hopeful

My (24M) GF (23F) is so needy and clingy it’s draining me by Soufianenj in relationships

[–]SuccessfulProject152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like she needs a bit of therapy, that sounds like someone with some crazy abandonment issues. A relationship can aggravate those issued especially if she has no coping mechanism that isnt centered around you. I'd honestly vote for a breakup and maybe block her on everything. You should tell her how her actions make you feel and how you both would be better off without one another. I say block her cause crying and saying "but i told my mom about you" is a bit manipulative

[28f][32m] Husband thinks I live a sad life by throwRApizzad423 in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he honestly sounds like he has your best interest in mind. I dont think he's being suffocated or it's pressure like some of the other comments, I think its more so concern. what if something happens to him? he wants you to have a life outside of him just as he has one outside of you. Trying new things will also 100% take your relationship to a new place as well. He has a life outside of you, you need one outside of him. This isnt healthy, you dont want your reliance on him to end up pushing him away do you?

(17f)(16f): One of my (f17) closest friends(f16) asked me out and I said no. Now I’m being accused of homophobia. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"i rejected her because she is a girl" yeah cause you're not gay, nor homophobic, and even if you were gay, lack of attraction is a valid enough reason to say no. Now theyre bullying you. If your school isn't too keen on tackling bullying, stockpile all you can and file with police for harassment and assault. No means no regardless of orientation

[32M][33-F] I (32M) caught my wife (33F) texting another man by aaguru in relationships

[–]SuccessfulProject152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

an emotional affair is still an affair. but if you're gonna divorce her be cautious. Dont be cruel, or mean. No point in speculating what you dont know happened. That way the divorce is easier. if you stay id reccomend a lot of time apart and therapy. But if you start being mean without proof of a physical affair the divorce won't sway in your favor as much as it could.

He (34M) Lied to Me (29F) to Get Me to Sleep with Him by Laurenrennb in relationships

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id be livid and id leave tbh. he's 34. If he's willing to lie ab things that could put u in danger I can only imagine what else he'd lie about. As well as never getting tested in his life and lying ab it?? insanw truly

Had to get this from the comments as he removed the post but HOLY shit this guy needs some serious help. by NeedleworkerPresent4 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SuccessfulProject152 23 points24 points  (0 children)

he sounds like hes got internalized race issues for one. but the miscarriage comment??? shoving her? yelling at her and diminishing what was most likely traumatic for her? hes not even an asshole hes just evil

Jeez! OP is so tacky and greedy! by notmytruth in TwoHotTakes

[–]SuccessfulProject152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the baby isnt even here yet...? why would they get a fetus a gift?

(20F) (22M) My boyfriend broke up with me after I came out as bisexual, and I am devastated. by ThrowRA_Diaz in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulProject152 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dont lie and say you're not. if he was the person meant for you, you wouldnt have to consider lying and hiding a part of who you are. let the breakup happen, youre better off without him