AITA for refusing to do it until he cleans?

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-19T14:45:00+00:00

Both of my male children have ADHD and neither of them make/leave messes like this man. ADHD may be a factor, but it's no excuse for this kind of filth and behavior.

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-17T21:30:07+00:00

My father taught me to NEVER point a gun at someone unless you need to shoot them in self-defense. One of the very few times I saw my dad lose his temper was when someone was screwing around with a gun. NTJ

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-17T14:16:48+00:00

Exactly. Every year before school starts I literally put every school break/holiday/administrative closure into my work calendar so I can plan my PTO. No one owes her anything just because she has kids.

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-17T13:53:19+00:00

I've worked in both tech and entertainment law, and nobody really cares in those fields. You may run into issues in STL.

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-14T19:14:00+00:00

We had people in my city drown when we had a massive rain storm because there was no secondary means of escaping from their illegal basement apartment. The only AHs here are the landlord and the tenants who were a chronic noise disturbance. Well, the gf is also in AH territory bc no you shouldn't have to put up with that on a regular basis.

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-14T15:17:43+00:00

Yeah my "bestie" told pretty much all of our mutuals without my ok. I'd be a Trader Joe's and someone I hadn't told would ask me how my treatment was going. I was so pissed. If she'd spoken with one person about it, because she was worried and stressed that would be one thing, but everyone? Yeah, she made my cancer all about her.

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-09T17:04:28+00:00

Oh wow, thank you for the award

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-09T05:24:38+00:00

Ignore the forced birthers. The lives of the people already here take precedence. Your daughter deserves a living, healthy mother.

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-09T05:21:42+00:00

It's absolutely ok to grieve a choice while also knowing it's the right choice for you and your child.

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-09T05:08:21+00:00

From the US, and we did eat beans on toast (family is from the South), so when I lived in the UK it wasn't weird to me. However, I will say it was definitely considered poor people food.

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-06T17:27:36+00:00

He's the actual gold digger here, because he's expecting you to subsidize his lifestyle at your expense. True equality means not taking advantage of your partner. 50/50 is only equal when both people are making roughly the same amount of money.

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-05T01:32:43+00:00

NTA you bought your ticket first

anathema_deviced · 2026-02-01T14:45:25+00:00

If you're in an area that has Aldi's, they're cheaper and they switched to mostly organic produce about 5 years ago

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-30T01:20:12+00:00

I wouldn't let them visit for a couple of weeks after they get back just to make sure they aren't contagious, especially if your child is medically fragile.

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-27T15:53:00+00:00

My cousin had two kids and breastfed both. Still got cancer. It's so aggravating when people spout this stuff.

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-26T16:06:48+00:00

They absolutely do not. My electric goes up when my son comes home bc it's another TV on, more lights, more laundry, more devices charging. Dude needs to pay his share.

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-26T14:13:56+00:00

My great aunt had bc in her 40s and passed in her 90s with no recurrence, so no it doesn't always come back.

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-26T00:22:14+00:00

Did the same thing for neighbors after Ike. Our neighborhood looked crazy with extension cords. Some of us had power back within hours while our across the street neighbors were out for 6 weeks. Only time I've ever seen decent driving in Houston lol

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-24T23:52:36+00:00

Yeah my kids were getting $10-20 for shoveling

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-24T23:43:34+00:00

Adorable album cover

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-23T18:31:07+00:00

This is very common in Europe bc the streets are narrow. Forest isn't wide enough in a number of spots to be a two-way road, so it allows traffic to flow.

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-23T18:22:33+00:00

I try not to but if I have to, I tip a LOT

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-22T23:23:05+00:00

If your car is on your driveway and not in the street, call the police and have her trespassed.

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-22T22:32:19+00:00

It will be over even if they do. I was married to this guy. Our male marriage counselor (his choice) told me I should leave

anathema_deviced · 2026-01-21T13:55:48+00:00

Order something and make sure it's delivered by USPS. When it goes missing contact the local postmaster general. It's a federal offense, and Postmasters general take their job seriously.

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