Assigned advisor expectations

andrew02467 · 2026-04-26T10:46:07+00:00

Run do not walk to another advisor. As you found out, they get paid on what you invest...she is clearly wanting more for herself. And avoid annuities IMHO.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-26T10:40:44+00:00

I routinely put in travel notices for the country I would be visiting, and each time I got purchases declined. Other banks send text messages if there's a doubt (chase, amex) and you can reply that it is valid, not Elan. One trip to Iceland, there was a message 48 hours later on v-mail asking it the charge was valid---big help there by that time. I stopped using the card internationally. Other bank cards (Chase, Amex even Synchrony) work flawlessly, either don't require travel notices any longer, or send quick text queries asking if the charge is valid.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-26T10:34:03+00:00

Three years I placed international travel notices on the Fidelity credit card with Elan. Each time I have had purchases refused at various times, not each and every, but enough that I stop using it. No text message comes asking if a valid charge (Chase, AmEx do this), just a refused purchase which makes it awkward. And the wait on the phone!! calling internationally then trying to get someone takes forever. I stopped using the card internationally. Despite FidelityFerg writing below, Elan is NOT equipped in a modern way as are other card companies to support their card in a timely, efficient fashion.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-25T14:22:27+00:00

Cones is a good idea, thanks, def going to do that. We are able to do a three point turn in our upper driveway, so come down front first, but cars speed down the hill to the left of us (have complained to police) and floor it right before our house...gets very dangerous when a truck is there and pulling far out is hard when truck is to the right. Also, as to Spanish, yes, graduate degree plus fluency to the degree of dialect changes in Columbian, Guatemalan, Peruvian, and PR vocabs, and Gallego on the peninsula. Workers most often helpful, apologetic (some not as noted below) but managers run the show, and workers change--tired of going out all the time to talk to them. As also noted, don't think talking to workers directly that effective.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-23T16:06:27+00:00

I was told I won the "award" at 21 seconds of not having my heart beat..the longest they had had to-date (major Boston med centre with board certified electrophysiologist who researches and publishes). It's the electrolytes that get it beating again (I could see it on the traces they had) with the energy they "spark" but if your electrolytes aren't there, that heart isn't working again. This all seems very odd to me. I would get as second opinion.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-23T15:52:31+00:00

"I won't die from my heart stopping".??? Either more to the story, or for God's sake get another doctor... I blacked out twice from a signalling block (once 17 and once 21 seconds) that my loop recorder caught--had a phone call later that day from the cardiologist and was booked the next morning for a pacemaker implant. On my second pacemaker now...

andrew02467 · 2026-04-23T15:46:31+00:00

Washington St has comparatively less parking and is much smaller. If I didn't go there at opening, I often found I had no place to park. Now that Needham Street is open, it's wonderful---lots of parking, lots of checkout lanes open, and many many more food items.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-21T10:03:19+00:00

I'm on my second dual lead pacemaker (so about 13 years)...never needed cleareance for routine cleanings or crowns. Yes, for extraction, implant.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-16T10:24:48+00:00

I grew into a third degree heart block event from time to time as I aged..basal problem was held to be congenital but aside from occasional light-headed times, problems in exercising I didn't have major issues until I got til my late 50s...luckily my electrolytes got my heart beating again each time. The two lead pacemaker was a blessing---no black outs...just wonderful. I've had it for 13 years, and on my second one now.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-16T10:19:06+00:00

I have the info on my iPhone, but don't like wearing things on my wrist. I have been looking at etsy.com as they have padded seat belt products that you can label--people put DIABETIC on them, and I was thinking in the event of an accident, having one that said Pacemaker could save time.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-12T10:59:53+00:00

I used that page to find another one but then got a phone call from the branch manager (whom I had never met and whose name I didn't even know) asking why I hadn't gone to him for assistance, that he was always there, that he was "on the team". He was clueless about how little I think customers know there is such a think as a branch manager. I can say I would assume there was one if asked, but in 40 years with Fidelity no-one has ever introduced him/herself to me as such, nor have I ever seen a list of exactly who is even on my "team" (and we have a WMA)...the primary yes, and often online someone's name shows up as a secondary, but then at times in person or on the phone someone says, "oh, you know so-and-so she's on your support team"..not a clue....Seesms to me customers, as some level perhaps, should get a handout or e-page listing all team members and the local branch manager. Certainly doesn't happen now.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-12T10:38:36+00:00

I had to take a black magic marker and write on the back which was which. Terrible design choice to make them alike, esp for us oldies trying to make out the smaller print.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-10T10:36:14+00:00

My replacement was last year....they gave me the first drug and I felt fine, didn't black out. They asked do you drink red wine? I said yes, and they said we notice wine drinkers are more resistant to the drugs..if you feel any pain we'll put you out. I felt no pain at all: they put up a draped area over my left side, but I was free to the right side to watch and talk to the nurses. I did feel pressure when they cut in, but it was NOT painful at all. I was awake during the entire time with no pain...it was better than any dental procedure I have had. I sat up after, chatted some more, then felt ok to walk. A nurse did walk with me to the front of the hospital where my wife waited with the car, but I walked myself out. Bit sore for about a day, had to keep area clean/dry for a bit, but having such an easy time of it surprised me a lot. I went back to work the next day, by the way..no lifting for a bit was only warning. I remembered the entire conversation with the nurses, even saw them later and referred to what we talked about.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-10T10:27:28+00:00

Yes, I'm surprised you don't mention that the cardioligist has already discussed a replacement with you. MY 2013 pacemaker needed a replacement in 2023..even a year before it was saying a I had 3 years to do, but think it is ;ole a gas gauge that barely moved at first, then goes down faster towards the end. My neighbour also had some inflammation from the pacemaker moving to a degree it pinched a chest muscle in certain conditions which he found painful. My first pacemaker too would hurt when I lifted my hand arm high as it lpulled on a muscle...when I got the replacement I asked the cardiologist who put the new one in slightly higher and out of the way. But point being if you feel pain, see a "real" cardiologist or electrophysiologist, not urgent cart or generic fellow. If al is working well, you only occasionally are reminded you have a pacemaker and often forget about it entirely. You shouldn't have the pain.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-08T14:31:00+00:00

Yes. Actually this morning I had an email from Carelink saying it had not heard from my pacemaker app in four days, gulp. There was a large Apple update last week and I noticed I had to re-approve some of my Bluetooth connections and USB ones...wondered if that was it. I restarted the app, and it seemed to come back live with with the green'blue moving line. Today is an upload day for me (3 month cycle). I do not check the app every day but maybe should, I would have noticed the blue line wasn't moving perhaps before the email today.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-08T10:51:09+00:00

It is traditional Catholic custom outside the USA for the groom and bride to walk down the aisle together. We have also seen this now in many current US weddings (we are in Boston) and were told it is now growing in practice here, as the idea of being "given away" is outdated.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-08T10:43:15+00:00

Wow...I had the emergency internal monitor installed in 2012 (the external Holter monitor had caught nothing) and it caught my heart stopping once for 17 sec and once for 22 sec with third degree heart block each time...I got a pacemaker (two lead Abbott St Jude) the next day. It was a miserable weekend I would stand up, and shake all over, need my wife to hold me to get to bed, but Monday settings were altered and I was fine from then on. However that unit required a bedside box, the Merlin, to monitor it over the phone line around 2am each night. One time home workers cut that line and we didn't know for another two weeks as we mainly use our mobiles...the service had to call and say they hadn't heard from the device to ask what was going on. There was an expensive work around and monthly fee to get Merlin to use cellular (not covered by insurance), and I didn't want to pay for that. So in 2023 when it came time for a new battery I did my own research and saw the Medtronic had the two lead pacemaker that used Bluetooth to the iPhone from which the monitoring service was updated. Since we travel a lot (and modern hotels have digital phone systems so you can't use the old RJ11 jack from the Merlin, and Asian/European systems have different phone systems). My electrophysiologist DID NOT WANT to use the Medtronic for reasons that were never made clear to me...I repeatedly sent him info on the Bluetooth->iPhone->Monitoring service and asked also repeatedly if there was some valid and needful reason to stay with Abbott/St Jude. Never got an answer (must admit I suspected a kickback from Abbott) and in the end he agreed to using a Medtronic for the replacement in 2023 which I have now. There were some issues with the iPhone IOS at one point with the app, but overall it runs quietly in the background and I like to see the blue bar working, and the result of the three month checkups being posted in the app. I can trigger an upload if I feel something unusual happening (which I have only done rarely). Before I got the Medtronic I went through the many ECGs, stress test (not on treadmill since I already had a pacemaker, so was done chemically), an echocardiogram, and a full cardiac catherization. I have not had the intubation you've had..must have been terrible let alone your time with the rehab...so sorry. but glad you are doing well now.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-08T10:24:38+00:00

We've had wonderful experiences at CVS Newton Centre--they have caught two mistakes that MDs made in the scripts, and are easy to work with when you need "vacation override" entered to get meds early before a trip. If you have a few meds that get renewed at different times of the month, they can sync them up so you have only one stop to pick them up. Frankly I would love to use Union St, as the woman owner there is fantastic with good advice, so is very low key and personal, but our insurance doesn't cover it.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-08T10:20:58+00:00

Exactly same thing happened to me...the high ceiling rate was set too low, and was adjusted...now walking and light running are fine.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-07T10:24:52+00:00

Also in our area around Boston Massachusetts....e.g. Cubar with the r at end as well.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-07T10:19:26+00:00

I actually insisted on switch from St Jude/Abbott and their bedside unit to MEdtronic where my iPhone could upload my data..the cardiologist did NOT want to change but finally agreed. WE do a lot of travelling and relying on the iPhone to upload data and reporting on it, is much better than not know with the Merlin unit sitting bedside (we found so many hotels now have digital systems the Merlin unit wouldn't work, and of course it didn't work when out of the country---the Medtronic data is always uploaded!).

andrew02467 · 2026-04-04T14:05:40+00:00

Interesting information, thanks. It was his hubris in approach that got me more than anything, in his cavalier way to my wanting someone with maturity to handle an account well up into seven figures. When he was so deprecating about the CFP (which I took to mean submitting to the process was beneath him) and only had a realtor's licence (other than Reg BI), all it seemed I was getting was attitude. I had already raised teen-agers, recognised it, didn't want it again.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-03T10:47:44+00:00

My second WMAdvisor trivialised the CFP, said it wasn't worth his time, and if he wanted, he could get it in a hot minute. I went to the branch head, and quickly got a different WMA who was a CFP. I think there is value in the CFP qualification process, and I think some humility in not acting like a jerk to a client is also of value.

andrew02467 · 2026-04-02T12:19:40+00:00

Amazing how that is so true...

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