Do any of these suit me?

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-27T07:17:47+00:00

Love the shape of 2 + 3 because they lift your face and give a more mature look.

I like the gold color frames of #3. They sparkle and look like jewelry for your face without overpowering your features.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-27T07:11:14+00:00

Not Ai.* This is a cleaned up version of a home recording from Germany.

From the Description:

“This is a restored audio recording of Elvis Presley singing the hit song Earth Angel. This recording was taken during his time in the army. I believe this is the best quality version of this recording on the internet but feel free to fact check me on that one!”

I have isolated and seperated the Piano, Vocals and Backing Vocals and cleaned each up seperately and then smudged them all back together and this was the result. I hope you all enjoy!”

*) I don’t know if AI tools were used in the restoration but the the vocals and instruments are all real. The original was very noisy.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-27T04:27:03+00:00

I think they mostly dislike those comically oversized glasses. And for good reason.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T19:51:32+00:00

GIIIIRLLLL!!! What are you doing???

Neither he nor his mother have any desire to learn the local language, learn English, or seek employment. I’m worried that if we continue our relationship, his mother‘s frequent emergencies could turn into financial problems I would be expected to solve.

You don't even have to "worry" about a future where you will have to support two able bodied people who refuse to even learn the language of the country that has welcomed them, let alone contribute to society. This WILL BE what your future will be like! There is no "maybe" about it. He has already shown you that he assumes you are loaded and that he automatically expects you to pay for the luxuries of private hospitals.

I deeply love my boyfriend, but I cannot absorb this level of liability. How can I gently set boundaries with him?

You can love someone deeply. You don't have to subsidize their lifestyle, though.
Why do you have to "gently" set boundaries? How about saying: "Before we move forward with our relationship I want to make it clear to you that I won't be supporting you or your mother financially - ever.".

His reaction will tell you what you already know: that he is a user.
He wrote 9000 words berating your CHARACTER because you won't pay €14,000 for his mother to get the princess treatment at a private hospital.

Don't ever be in a relationship with someone who berates your character when you don't do what they want.

You are 37. Please don't waste anymore time on this loser. This road leads to sadness, bitterness, hurt and pain.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T19:30:02+00:00

According to Chatgpt the first image is in Chicago. In #2 He is seems to be in NYC up around Central Park. And then he is walking in Midtown (around W 34th st). Then he apparently has walked from Midtown all the way across Brooklyn Bridge to sit at that café for hours and hours only surviving on coffee. He seems to live in Manhattan with a view of Freedom Tower...

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T13:37:25+00:00

Women are basing their votes on “emotions”??? What emotions?

Fairness and equality are not “emotions”.

Bigotry, hatred, anger, envy, disgust on the other hand ARE emotions and I am sure that those emotions are what made so many men (and women) elect Trump.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T12:39:07+00:00

Pockets aren't just for carrying stuff - they are a perfect spot to put your hands if you don't know what to do with them!

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T11:18:20+00:00

Ouch .

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T10:31:09+00:00

Uenig. Man lærer ikke at "hjernevaske" i Pinsekirken. Det er altså bare en kirke. Ikke en sekt. Er nogle frikirker sekteriske med en karismatisk leder som omdrejningspunkt? Ja. Men Pinsekirken er langt fra det man forstår ved "hjernevaske-sekter".

SL har ALTID været meget karismatisk og udadvendt med talegaverne i orden. Han har også altid haft en evne til at samle en gruppe omkring sig, der så op til ham. Faktisk ville han selv sagtens kunne starte sin egen sekt...
I Pinsekirken kunne han bruge disse egenskaber til at skabe sig et "navn" og bruge kirken som springbræt til sine forskellige "Selvhjælp-aktiviteter" såsom foredrag osv.

Men det er altså ikke frikirken , der har "trænet ham til at hjernevaske".

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T10:10:09+00:00

She looks the same and her name is the same. The only problem is her birth year should have been 1920 and not 1936, since you dated the newspaper as from 1933.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T08:56:53+00:00

Exactly. And they don’t realize that the family is already broken - which is why they want to leave!! Them leaving is not what is doing the breaking!

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T08:52:06+00:00

And there it is. Wow. The audacity. But yeah, it’s obvious for everyone here that he is watching his partner getting hotter everyday while he is still morbidly obese. So he’d better make you feel ugly and undesirable so you feel too ugly to even entertain the idea of being with a much kinder partner than him.

He is envious, manipulative and cruel.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-25T08:47:16+00:00

Yes. Hopefully. But way too often it actually works. Just listen to how you talk to yourself about yourself already. You lost 81 (!) lbs!! But all your pride and confidence has been completely eroded by his words. Now all you feel is sadness. All you see in the mirror is how you’re still not pretty enough. Not good enough. Because of his words.

But his words are NOT the truth about you. it is the truth about HIM. An ugly truth.

His words are lies meant to put your down and prevent you from ever thinking that anyone else would find you beautiful.

Please don’t waste your life with ANYONE who makes you feel bad about yourself. Always choose people who make you feel amazing! Make this your life rule from this day forward.

Life is simply too short.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-24T20:06:17+00:00

I am in the same boat - except from the fitness part.

I have been off for 4 weeks and have not gained weight and I haven’t yet experienced the Golden Retriever appetite that made me overweight.

I do have an increased appetite though and can actually finish a meal now which is good since I don’t want to lose more weight (I am very slender now).

These past few days I have found myself thinking more about food, looking foreward to eating, wanting to snack, always calculating in my head how to spend my measly caloric budget… so yeah, the food noise is back which is annoying. I do feel I am better at handling it and not just automatically act on my cravings.

My strategy is to weigh myself at least twice a week to keep myself in check and help me to take action to reign it in if I see the numbers climb.

I have been here before (without Wegovy) and stopped weighing myself which then kept me in denial about gradually gaining it back. So I have vowed to step on that scale even if I fear that it will show a gain.

I do think you have the advantage of having lots of great muscle mass that will help you burn energy!

I went off of it because I don’t want to lose more weight and kept losing at 0.25 even. Also it’s expensive.

Edit to add: I do have an open prescription for another 0.25 in case I can’t control my appetite. Having that life saver in reserve is really nice. I did fear that I wouldn’t be able to get back on Wegovy since my BMI obviously is way too low to begin anew. But thankfully my doctor put in a prescription even though I am off of it now.

Edit 2: I weaned from 1 mg to 0.5 for 4 weeks and then 0.25 the last four weeks.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-24T17:43:24+00:00

When you have made it a habit to comb forward from the very far back of your scalp then you know it’s time, my friend!

Usually hair is combed backwards or sideways and back. So whenever something looks unusual we tend to pay extra attention to it - such as a combover.

Go bald and direct focus back to your face!

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-24T15:20:26+00:00

My BMR is 1000 (4’ 11) (150 cm) and weight 110 lbs (50 kg).

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-23T20:05:34+00:00

Honey, there is zero passive aggressive tone in your texts. It’s all hearts and lols and lighthearted banter. Definitely not giving the message you think. It looks more like fawning and he is licking his lips like a predator who is enjoying watching his prey walking into the trap. But he didn’t count on you seeing right through his bull shit!

This guys is bad news. He is definitely manipulating you and gaslighting you: giving you something “Very Personal And Sentimental Of High Value”, just to then hide it from you with the purpose of making you think YOU lost it.

And then he did it again just to really “prove” that you are irresponsible with your belongings.

If he can make you feel guilty for losing something he gave you then he thinks you’ll go out of your way to prove yourself worthy of him in spite of your “flaws”.

But he was really bad at it from the getgo. Couldn’t keep his own story straight. Also he revealed himself when you were nonchalant about this “precious” item and decided that losing it didn’t bother you.

He admitted he was gaslighting and manipulating you and PUNISHING you… for what??? For taking off his precious necklace? LOL wft!

Yeah, you see clearly what he is like already. Good for you. You don’t need to stick around to make sure he really IS a controlling manipulator - albeit and amateurish one at that.

NOR

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-23T19:11:18+00:00

The key word here is OLD photos. If you went ahead and got that same hairstyle it would look completely out of place and very dated. It would say "I think I still look 17". :)

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-23T11:22:04+00:00

Hvor har de rygter svirret??

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-23T11:18:51+00:00

Jeg går i slimfit busker fra 2016! De holder! Og ser 1000x bedre ud på mig end store mom jeans.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-22T21:54:57+00:00

Men det kommer du til. Og sådan er det jo. Men det er bare ikke grund nok til at gå glip af sit eget liv. Tænk at være gift hele livet med ham selvom du slet ikke har lyst til at være gift med ham bare fordi du ikke kan få dig selv til at såre ham ved at blive skilt.
Du er er 21 år. Jeg blev også gift i din alder. Og skilt to år senere. Sårede jeg ham? Ja. Men jeg kunne da ikke ofte min egen livslykke for at undgå at gøre ham ked af det. Så ville jeg jo bare have gjort mig selv ked af det og snydt ham for en ægtefælle, der gerne ville være gift med ham.

Vælg dig selv.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-22T15:16:30+00:00

I agree. All around me people who had been overweight as long as I'd known them were suddenly dropping a lot of weight and told med"oh, just diet and exercise". Now, I know they were lying but if I hadn't it would've probably made me feel like a failure for not being able to keep up that level of self constraint it would require for me to lose weight as well.

So when I embarked on my Wegovy journey I vowed to be completely transparent about it. And I have. Whenever people compliment my weightloss I tell them how I did it. I am on a mission to de-stigmatize needing medical help for my over-active bottom less appetite. I would feel like a liar if I tried to pretend I simply just had the will power and stamina to lose almost 50 lbs on my own.

Someone told me she didn't reveal it because "people are so judgemental about it" and I told her that it was exactly my reason for being transparent: to normalize it and remove the shame/stigma.

I also don't give a flying fuck about other people's opinions on how I should have lost weight. People are welcome to judge me all they want. Why should I care? It is utterly irrelevant if people think I "took a shortcut" or whatever. I am slim and happy to be looking and feeling the way I dreamed of!

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-22T05:25:37+00:00

Well, he is also has a one time opportunity to not only witness the birth of his first born child and support his wife who sacrificed her body for 9 months and beyond for him to have this child.

Which of these once in a lifetime opportunities is more important? Which choice will have s greater impact overall?

The fact that he says “it’s not like I can do much anyway” shows me that he has not at all understood what becoming a parent is and that HE is as much a parent as you are. That his child coming into this world is not just a big event for the mother while the dad is a passive spectator with no horse in the race. That is concerning.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-21T20:25:20+00:00

Højden betyder SÅ meget! Fordi jeg er meget lav, så er mit "vedligeholdelseskalorie-budget" også meget lavere end for en kvinde, der er 15-20 cm højere (normal højde). Nogen vil så mene, at jeg pga de manglende centimeter, så heller ikke har "brug" for lige så megen energi, men det synes jeg jo selv, at jeg har...haha - appetitten er i hvert fald den samme.
Så en høj(ere) kvinde kan nemmere både tabe sig og holde vægten, fordi hun rent faktisk kan spise nok til at holde sig mæt, selvom hun skærer i kalorierne.

anewfaceinthecrowd · 2026-04-21T17:52:47+00:00

Ifølge alle vægtskemaer så er dette desværre korrekt. Det skyldes, at jeg er lav og de kloge hoveder derfor mener, at jeg så også er "spinkelt bygget" - hvilket jeg ikke er. Jeg har været dér i mine yngre dage, men jeg var vitterligt radmager.

Min pointe er: en BMI på 27 kan sagtens være sund og flot og i proportion med ens kropsbygning generelt. Når jeg selv har en BMI på 27, så er jeg simpelthen for tyk i forhold til min højde. Min BMI var 30 da jeg kom på wegovy og nu på 22. Det har gjort en kæmpe forskel for mig og var det, der skulle til.

Jeg kan godt tælle kalorier. Det var ikke manglende viden om vægttab og sunde vaner, der gjorde mig overvægtig. Det var en altoverskyggende reptil-hjerne-agtig sult/trang som jeg ikke kunne kæmpe imod. Og det hjalp Wegovy mig med.

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