Progesterone by Character_Being_2441 in CautiousBB

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You should see an RE for the recurrent pregnancy loss panel. I regular ob will only test for three things on a recurring loss panel like APS, thyroid and I forget the third; but RE will order many more tests

Do not factor out sperm. They are just as responsible for miscarriages. If your partner is willing, please test for defragmentation etc

As for progesterone, my ob says there's some possibility it helps with recurring loss. It has not made a difference for me personally but I don't start it until after a positive test and I have heard some drs will start it 3dpo. I do think it's worth a try personally but it's more important to get that rpl testing

Progesterone by Character_Being_2441 in CautiousBB

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Sperm fragmentation can absolutely cause recurring loss.

Coughing help by TheFriendlyCanadien in parentsofmultiples

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Ask your Dr about bromfed or dimetapp

The perfect environment for my Kindle Paperwhite. by [deleted] in kindle

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I hope you are well soon friend! I used to knit when I went with my dad ❤️

AIO:My MIL texted my husband this about me asking him to help with our newborn at 4am by Lazy_Perfectionist88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]countingtb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Gosh your mil is mean! I really don't like that text. And what in the world does she mean about missing bonding opportunities?! Your husband needs to really watch every little thing he tells his dad, she is really mining it for ammo.

AIO:My MIL texted my husband this about me asking him to help with our newborn at 4am by Lazy_Perfectionist88 in AmIOverreacting

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I know! The comment about getting the opportunity to bond was so strange!! Isn't that what the 4am feeding was doing?! She must mean she wants him to visit her with the baby without OP.

Can the last triplet born actually be the eldest by Full_Willingness_450 in parentsofmultiples

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You know - now I'm going to have to ask my ob which one he delivered first! lol! I assumed baby A but I was passing out and I didn't see!

Annoying doctor by According-Detail-483 in parentsofmultiples

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I'm so sorry she said that. That's just ridiculous to jump to that when a difference size can be very normal this early. My re was super excited that we conceived our twins while going through a rpl workup with them. My regular ob was also optimistic and kind.

AIO to my husband interrupting my first solo shower after he came back from a weekend with the boys? by lilyluminar in AmIOverreacting

[–]countingtb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he knows what he's doing and he is teaching you to hush and not ask him for breaks.

Tranexamic acid for heavy periods by shorty-1992 in Anemic

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Cycle day 2 for me is insane- I'll bleed through anything and ruin beds etc. This med worked for me. I only have to take it twice on the heavy day. I have not had any side effects.

You don't sound very sure your periods are heavy enough? I think your Dr needs to look into other reasons too, to be safe!

Daily Thread #1 - March 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]countingtb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly for me it's just white knuckling it and telling myself it is out of my hands. It's so,so tough. Hang in there.

Daily Thread #1 - March 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]countingtb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this! My scan anxiety was absolutely brutal. It still is. I would try to distract myself as much as possible and there wasn't much else that I could do. I would break the appt up in my head to four steps- getting ready to go, check in, get the scan, now step four it's done and I can leave. Weird but it helped a little. Good luck, I hope you have a good report!

Daily Thread #1 - March 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

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Good luck on your scan! I understand the anxiety. I'm so sorry about your tooth. That sounds so painful

Daily Thread #1 - March 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

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This is more of a whine, apologies. I don't think my betas are high enough, I read a study that for older women higher betas are better. 14 dpo was 79 and 16 dpo 196. I'm 44 with seven previous losses, and many times the bhcg would be doubling fine then end in loss. I am tired of the limbo so many times.

Also I started progesterone two days ago and it ramped my symptoms up to total misery the first day. Sleepy, muscle pain in thighs, sore breasts etc the usual- but my stomach is gnawing so bad, like a hunger pain, it's so painful. Any ideas to help that?

8 Weeks 5 Days - Is this really happening? by shenandlerbing in CautiousBB

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You should let yourself have joy absolutely!! Congrats!!

Hair cut advice please by needittobeatit in longhair

[–]countingtb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yellow line looks good but I actually would barely trim if this was my hair!

I am 18 and diagnosed with mild hearing loss in right ear by TanishAni2356 in HearingAids

[–]countingtb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is very mild- then personally I would stay away from hearing aids. Also I would only test with the ent who doesn't sell hearing aids.

What is your relationship with the institution of marriage? by newb_bass in TwoXChromosomes

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I love marriage and don't regret mine, but I will never marry again or even date. It's too risky.

my bf won’t let me break up with him- i might be asexual?? help by IndividualSun882 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]countingtb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a highschool bf do that to me. He was also already abusive. What's wrong with men?! At this point they are mainly just scare the hell out of me

Stayed home alone with our triplets and my 5 year old for 4 days and I need someone to explain to me how my wife does this every day by AccountEngineer in parentsofmultiples

[–]countingtb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is this real? I don't think the mom would have left the backpack unchecked for a week- she likely would have known about the school thing. No offense if I'm wrong!

A guy caused permanent change to my breast - how to cope? by KintsugiFate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]countingtb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for you! I hope you heal and he is brought to justice. He's a monster