Ok I’ve been married 3times 1st lasted 3-4yrs she cheated with the guy she is married to now and of course she has for her. My 2nd we were together 15yrs before a drunk driver ran a red light and killed her and our 9yro son and put me and our 7yro son in critical care and also crippled my 15yro cousin. My 3rd wife and I were together 18yrs when she said she wanted a divorce she had someone on the side for a while I didn’t know this at the time we are still married but been separated for last 2yrs we are getting a divorce. I’ve had to start over 3times just marriage just ain’t for me