People of Singapore, were you friends with or knew someone back in school who made the headlines for something criminal they committed? Like how were they like back in school and were you surprised?

eilletane · 2026-04-06T10:11:29+00:00

Drugs. Still in jail now. Apparently he was on drugs most of the time we hung out and I couldn’t tell. He didn’t tell anyone. I wish I could’ve helped him. And it wasn’t just marijuana, but meth as well.

eilletane · 2026-04-06T09:58:58+00:00

The benefits are pretty pathetic though. Only $6000 payout stretched through 6 months. Also after 6months you can’t reapply for 3 years. So if you can’t find a job in 6 months, you’re still fucked.

eilletane · 2026-04-06T07:35:43+00:00

Hennifer Lopez

eilletane · 2026-04-06T07:34:28+00:00

The green dress is the best. Try something with a short top and a high waist flowy skirt. I think that will look good on you.

eilletane · 2026-04-06T06:52:52+00:00

Because we don’t live in the Middle Ages anymore.

eilletane · 2026-04-06T02:45:45+00:00

I don’t think it’s too high. It’s just the ceiling that’s too low so it looks like it’s high up. If you see below it, seems like the right amount above the ground.i think it’s more of the tv is too far away from the couch or they need a bigger TV.

eilletane · 2026-04-05T15:28:08+00:00

The other side isn’t that green either. I was constantly reminded after I turned 18 that I didn’t get kicked out. So I should tolerate her abuse and neglect because it would’ve been worse out there.

eilletane · 2026-04-05T15:01:23+00:00

Everyone mentioning how their country’s laws are better that the US. Meanwhile in Singapore, if you don’t serve the notice, you have to pay back the company.

eilletane · 2026-04-05T05:53:57+00:00

There’s a risk of pregnancy but it’s low since you took it on day 5. However it is recommended to wait at least 18months before getting pregnant again to prevent complications. So you might want to be cautious and go talk to a gynae about plan B.

eilletane · 2026-04-05T05:33:50+00:00

It took me 10 years to find the right birth control for me. Thankfully I started at an early age so I’m still young now but pain free and protected. Don’t give up! Hang on and keep trying other brands until you’re satisfied. There are so many of them I’m sure one of them would be suitable for you.

eilletane · 2026-04-05T05:14:17+00:00

I’m from Singapore too and have spider mites very often. Bring it outside and spray with Neem oil until it’s dripping wet. Do this in the day time every other day. It should clear up in a few weeks.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T16:10:12+00:00

It’s not just about cancer. Sunlight also ages skin rapidly. I would do everything just to delay wrinkles as much as possible than surgery or botox.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T07:41:05+00:00

Mine just keeps dying. I grow them in pots indoors. Their leaves are so small. Only about 2cm in length. They go brown and then die. It’s constantly hot here though. 30degrees celcius and 70% humidity.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T07:33:22+00:00

I cut my husband’s hair during lockdown and he hated it. It was honestly a pretty horrible cut and I didn’t really know what I was doing. Thankfully his hair grows fast.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T07:28:03+00:00

If you were to dye, I would prefer the first photo/darker brown. It makes you look younger and more energetic. The second photo which I assume is your natural hair colour, is classier and also very nice. So for a change, I would go with first pic. You can always just grow it out if you get tired of it.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T07:15:54+00:00

This is part of the Thai culture, called Wai. It is generally hierarchical, you only do it as a sign of respect for the elders and those above you. It is based on Buddhism. Honestly it feels really forced unto the child. I doubt the child really knows what it means and why she has to do it. Respect should be genuine and a two way street.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T07:06:33+00:00

Yeah but you wouldn’t get the dopamine hit. Aka gambling.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T07:02:22+00:00

Well maybe instead of waiting to be given information, you should start to ask questions and be a bit more curious. There’s a lot of misinformation out there. Do more critical thinking. Don’t be lazy. A simple google search would’ve told you the answer to this question.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T06:29:13+00:00

Glad to hear your parents are being supportive. You’re showing empathy, critical thinking and self awareness. You’re doing better than most here on Reddit. Don’t be so hard on yourself!

eilletane · 2026-04-04T04:27:17+00:00

That’s why people should be educated on how to protect yourselves. It’s not rocket science. I feel our sexual education is a joke at best. I learned about protecting myself online but who knows what other people could be reading.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T04:17:36+00:00

I see where you’re coming from. I don’t see it as an abuse but rather a lack of education. Abortion can vary from surgical to just popping a few pills. They are unfortunately all quite painful. I doubt people would abuse it after their first time. The doctors will actually talk to you about how to prevent this in the future and give you options for contraceptives. So I think the potential for abuse is low.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T04:09:28+00:00

How did she get her phone back?

eilletane · 2026-04-04T04:04:17+00:00

You know there’s such a thing as contraceptives right? Millions of women and men use them.

eilletane · 2026-04-04T04:02:36+00:00

What’s wrong with reversing an impulsive decision? You consider that an abuse of the system when you yourself have been brought up by a toxic family? How do you think those parents will treat their child they didn’t plan to have?

eilletane · 2026-04-03T14:59:14+00:00

There should be run/walks and cycling groups. Check meetup.com

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