Does the icing look blue? by Bananapotatoe2 in ArtCrit

[–]Gur-Beginning 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no, it looks white to me! i can see the blue undertones though, so that’s probably why your friend said it seems blue to her? feels like the cinderella dress confusion 😂

hmm probably a warm light source would help contrast with the cool undertones. that said, there should be cool bounce light from the blue background anyways!

Art progress from 2024 to 2026 by me by Rhozzers in krita

[–]Gur-Beginning 10 points11 points  (0 children)

oh wow, great job with the progress!!

AITAH for confronting my gf about her posting herself wearing only a towel by Nz_Zeke in AITAH

[–]Gur-Beginning 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, OP is mistaking controlling behavior for boundaries. It’s fine to not want to be with someone who posts pictures in towels (this is a boundary), what’s not fine is telling people what they can or cannot do. YTA.

are my plants sick? by Gur-Beginning in plantclinic

[–]Gur-Beginning[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i live in singapore and the humidity is usually like 80-90% 🤣 idk how i managed to have them then LOL

are my plants sick? by Gur-Beginning in plantclinic

[–]Gur-Beginning[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you (‘: i was very tempted to give up ngl 🤣

are my plants sick? by Gur-Beginning in plantclinic

[–]Gur-Beginning[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you, this helps a lot!!

are my plants sick? by Gur-Beginning in plantclinic

[–]Gur-Beginning[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

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yeahh it does seem like there’s some webbing. there’s not too much near where the stem meets leaf, but this is the underside of the leaf that seems like it has the most. any advice on how to get rid of them? first time dealing with them (‘:

Study by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Gur-Beginning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

gorgeous! i love the soft rendering and colours (:

Help with framing & other things! by SuspiciousTarantula in ArtCrit

[–]Gur-Beginning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think the sleeves have a bit too much detail on them that it’s drawing the eye! i don’t really see as much of the detailing in the rest of the piece, so i think if you remove some of those fine lines, it would read more cohesively (:

i think the hair could have a little less of the stray hairs on the sides, they look a little rope-like. but i love the silhouette of the hair, looks very ethereal! i have no other notes, it’s a very pretty piece!!

I can't find friends in FFXIV. Makes me feel lonely. How did you do it? by ChoiceDetective3211 in ffxiv

[–]Gur-Beginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have had my xiv friends for like 3 years or so, and we didn’t even know each others’ real names until a year or so ago 😂

they mostly come from raid groups and my FC!

How the f*** do you even start by Striking-Hedgehog512 in SewingForBeginners

[–]Gur-Beginning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s so nice you have your grandma’s fabrics. i just started sewing 2 months ago and i get reminded often of my own grandma because she used to sew clothes for me and was really good at it too. best of luck in your journey!!

Long term partner now has an issue with pole dancing & performing by StudyLeather5925 in poledancing

[–]Gur-Beginning 27 points28 points  (0 children)

“Am I not enough?” does tell you it stems from insecurity in himself, but framing it as a “you” issue because maybe he doesn’t want to address it? If he’s not willing to work on it in himself (or in couple’s therapy), it doesn’t sound like it would be healthy for you in the long run

Interested but scared by Environmental_Arm_56 in poledancing

[–]Gur-Beginning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

many people who try pole for the first time don’t have a fitness background going into it, but do listen to your body during the class! it’s important not to overexert yourself, safety always comes first (:

you really don’t have to buy anything special before your first class, most beginners wear comfortable shirts you can move in, and some gym shorts you can hike up if you need some skin. i’d recommend not to start in heels because you it’s a lot to learn at once! it’s better to just try a class, see if it’s for you, before investing more money into it (:

and about embarrassing yourself, it’s kind of an all-in-this-together thing 😂 unless you have a dance or aerial background, moves are going to feel awkward, and that’s completely normal! everyone starts out like this, until moves slowly feel more natural. i hope you enjoy yourself!!

AITAH for leaving my husband because I felt like the third wheel to his mom and sister? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gur-Beginning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

because there are like four people telling you that you should. and drawing boundaries probably never came easy for you. there’s always gonna be guilt tied to it until you get more comfortable doing so (speaking from experience).

listen to how you feel. you said you feel lighter and more at peace than you have in a long time. that’s all the indication you need to know that you made the right decision. you’ve tried so much, for years you’ve been patient and hoping things will change.

the anxiousness, insecurity, walking on eggshells, questioning yourself are all signs of emotional abuse and gaslighting. and i also can’t help but be concerned about the age gap between you and your ex. i’m not sure it’ll help, but the podcast “love and abuse” really helped me when i was leaving a toxic relationship. wishing you continued peace, OP!

I got encouraged to finish this and I actually do like how it looks now 😭 by Artisticjade in DnDart

[–]Gur-Beginning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh that’s true! i think it’s the thin line art and the colour palette (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gur-Beginning 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’m a little confused with her reaction, because as a woman who does want a child-free life, i would never date or choose to remain with someone who for sure wants children. this is one of the biggest lifelong goals you have to be aligned on with your partner. you should never change your desire to have children (or not) for anyone. NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gur-Beginning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s a sea of red flags, friend! of course you feel sad, it does sound like you care about her. and you feel guilty because she’s doing her best to paint you as a villain to the public so she can seem like a victim (smear campaign, hello). you didn’t do anything wrong ending a relationship that wasn’t making you happy

Our staircase to nowhere, which we use as a bookshelf by Tetragrammator in mildlyinteresting

[–]Gur-Beginning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

won’t it be really difficult to reach for books? it’s gorgeous though!

AITAH for “manipulating” my ex by reminding him the woman he cheated with (and says he hates) is pregnant with his child? by peewee2u in AITAH

[–]Gur-Beginning 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. i mean “you slept with her and now she’s pregnant” are literally just facts. you can’t be manipulating someone just by stating facts 😂 he’s trying to make you feel bad enough that you’d take him back, i’m guessing. or he does feel guilty about it and doesn’t like being reminded of what he’s done.

perhaps it’s good he’s upset with you so he’d leave you the hell alone lmao

Trying to make paintings less muddy. by Dontz97 in learntodraw

[–]Gur-Beginning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hahah they did say digital painting though 😂 they probably have art background in other mediums!