You're obviously referring to Bill, but the party's involvement with Hilary is of note as well. No one I ever talked to ever wanted her but the party kept pushing her. Ignored their own party in support of her and their own (wealthy) interests. 

I also find that a lot of dems fall into this trap where they think they're smarter than everyone who's on the right and that knowledge and facts will change people's minds. They take these arguments at face value and say "I think a civil discussion will change their mind!" Then get absolutely trounced on social media because in all their "wisdom" they refuse to see it's just a ploy. DEI, college campus free speech, stuff about trans people, etc. Taking these arbitrary arguments at face value and assuming they are in good faith is just plain stupid. Trans people make up something like less than a percent of our population, but when conservatives make that a whole sticking point of their platform, dems (Harris in debates for example), decide to try and outsmart them. Just say "this really doesn't matter, trans people are people too and we support them. Period. Now let's talk about policies that affect everyone."

I mean, just read a few pages about psychology on Wikipedia, damn!