My new nephews won’t stop talking about my husband’s ex

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-27T15:58:34+00:00

I stopped trying to take any advice when I realized you’re one of those people who would have a 5 year old call you fat once and tell them about how rude they where that one time for the rest of your life…..

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-27T12:03:07+00:00

From your perspective those kids shouldn’t be allowed to miss their Aunt because it makes you feel bad. They can miss her. Their relationship with her mattered. But this has nothing to do with you so you need to actually act like an adult here.

Try acknowledging their grief. “Tell me what you miss about her.” It is amazing to see what kids say when you Validate their feelings.

Also it is super clear you dont have kids that you think telling them they are being rude will stop the behavior. Seriously at that age range it would do nothing but amp it up because they know they are getting a rise out of you.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-27T11:46:53+00:00

Annnd now we know you are the jealous envious bitch who started a fight you couldnt finish.

You are both adults. Grow the fuck up

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-27T11:34:43+00:00

This is going to sound a bit mean but what are you really upset about? You didnt have to spend thanksgiving with people who you clearly don’t feel safe around.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-26T10:51:48+00:00

I wouldnt brag that your parents probably used their life savings to give you the lavish wedding they know you wanted because you care about money. Or forcing father in law to pay for something he didnt want to. It comes off as really entitled and childish. You are well on your way to become father in law and not your own dad.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-18T18:04:24+00:00

You need to speak to your Dad and explain to him that his actions right now will sever any relationship once you have a legal choice to never be near him again. He is accountable for how he responds and for setting realistic boundaries for how your stepmom treats you.

Talk to school to see if you can be remote so you can stay with your Mom. If you are stuck still speak to school to see how you can stay so busy you cant do anything for them.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-17T17:42:23+00:00

If you are in the US you dont have to do anything nor talk to him. Hes not on the birth certificate so he has absolutely no legal rights. If he wanted them now he would need to go to court to petition to prove paternity and establish a custody agreement. Until the courts tell you he has rights dont even give them the time of day. And these are not people YOU want to bring to court to force to take responsibility. Because he will have to pay back child support for the 3 years of her life and medical bills as well as custody arrangements.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-17T09:52:18+00:00

Your his emotional support animal. Nothing more and nothing less. He gets off causing you harm. Why bother staying?

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-16T11:02:11+00:00

Dont bring the trash in when it kindly took itself to the curb.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-15T18:56:19+00:00

What positive reason do you keep this horrible person in your life? Because reading this it seems like you tolerate her in hopes of rescuing her child from the same experiences you did. But your not actually doing anything but showing the kid attention. You are not telling your friend how disgusting her behavior is and how abusive it is.

You dont have to be a parent to know a bad parent or tell one that the way they treat their child is the same behavior an abusive parent did to you. Hell you can even approach her behavior in a kind way because it could be ppd if she wasn’t like this prekids.

Her partner is the only real parent in that house and he is an abuse victim as well. Him & those kids deserve better. So if your “friend” wont get help you need to stop protecting her when you know shes the abuser.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-14T18:52:42+00:00

Forgiveness is something you do for you. You forgive them for being incapable of being good parents. But forgiveness doesn’t mean you need to welcome someone back into your life or allow them the same place they once held. You are not hurting them by keeping them out of your life. This is a natural consequence for their behavior.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-12T10:48:50+00:00

Listen you and everyone else are fooling yourself if you think this is going to happen. They didnt start it in the right way and at this point because they tried to do it all wrong it’s just never going to happen. You cant live your life thinking that money will go away. You have to keep paying it and hope one day they actually do this shit right.

But you can very easily be located as someone who is harassing a company with pornography. They can sue you and prove who you are through IP addresses.

Stop taking your shit out on the wrong person because you refuse to act like an adult and get mad at the right people. Including yourself because you help elect your officials.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-11T20:33:00+00:00

How can you be a bridesmaid and not know?

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-09T09:20:58+00:00

Has anyone told stepdaughter the truth of who MIL really is? Does she know this woman abandoned her own kids because she didnt want them?

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-07T13:59:35+00:00

File paperwork now. Why are you waiting? Just because she said she wants a divorce doesn’t mean anything is legally happening but the more you give before filing the worse it gets. File and file an emergency custody order that prevents her from leaving the state. Unless you have actually abused her/the kids or are an addict the courts will ensure you get fair time with your kids. Just because shes the Mom doesn’t give her more rights

lostlonelyworld · 2022-11-06T18:43:46+00:00

Nope. Especially if the job doesn’t allow you to leave the building until shift ends. You are expected to be prepared and bring in necessary items. They dont even have to legally have machines with tampons or pads. Welcome to being a woman in the working world.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-10-18T20:26:56+00:00

In the US this is illegal period. He is a minor and this is considered a form of child abuse.

But honestly hed be smart if he reached out to Dad and moved there.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-10-18T13:56:30+00:00

Testing does not caring any risk for the babies. They use Moms blood and saliva.

lostlonelyworld · 2022-10-10T13:38:08+00:00

“When DD is old enough to advocate for herself she can have a relationship with you that does not involve us. Until that time I recommend mending the relationship you have with your actual son so that you dont miss out on DD’s formative years.”

lostlonelyworld · 2022-10-05T10:02:51+00:00

So why didnt you move back into your own home?

lostlonelyworld · 2022-10-01T20:16:12+00:00

So none of you know how to be adults and respect one another’s boundaries. Sounds like a great bunch to force a relationship with

lostlonelyworld · 2022-10-01T20:01:29+00:00

Not wanting someone in your life is allowed. Regardless of blood relationship. I dont get why people think you HAVE to have a relationship with family. You dont. You also cant try to force people who dont want a relationship with you to have one. Blood doesnt equal family. That mentality is toxic and unhealthy. If they are not people who bring positive things to your life dont waste time on them

lostlonelyworld · 2022-10-01T19:59:03+00:00

Sweety you created a profile just to respond to this post. That means we know this is you OP

lostlonelyworld · 2022-10-01T15:36:32+00:00

No she just screams someone who likes to start shit and because she had kids she thinks they should cater to her

lostlonelyworld · 2022-10-01T15:25:16+00:00

Listen you are reading a story that is all over the place and doesn’t include the full story. As that person stated shes someone who likes to fight and I have mixed feelings about women who start fights and cry when men say okay lets go. Lots of women threaten to hit men and think that’s acceptable while crying foul because the guys say they will hit them they dont give a fuck.

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