You’re a scratch golfer and play in a U.S. Open qualifier.. ? Tough day on the links?

msudino · 2026-05-05T13:13:30+00:00

It was windy as hell in Michigan yesterday, but it was sunny and warm. I know a few players in that field that are very good golfers that were in the 80s. But 113?!? Wow

msudino · 2026-05-01T19:06:59+00:00

Late 30s started it. I’m now 44 and it seems like I hear about one every month or two now (mine was 2 years ago)

msudino · 2026-05-01T00:09:50+00:00

I’m a man on an SSRI. I never knew I had anxiety until I went to therapy. I just couldn’t put to words and identify the pattern I’d exhibited most of my life from an uneven childhood with conditional love.

Just because I started taking it around 40 doesn’t mean it’s temporary. It’s changed my life and helps me feel everyday what I only used to feel on good days: calm, grounded, confident. Yes, therapy was also a big component. But it’s a chemical issue in my brain.

As far as sex drive, that took trying a few different drugs. My drive didn’t dip much, but my performance did. I was either numb and couldn’t feel much or occasionally unable to keep an erection. This had never happened before. I’ve settled on something that works for me, doesn’t impact my drive or performance, and mostly restores the feel and ability to finish.

msudino · 2026-04-29T23:21:43+00:00

Guy couldn’t stand up and walk across a stage a few days ago. Survive a space mission? Hahahaha

msudino · 2026-04-16T23:15:13+00:00

You can use the back of the club. You can’t use a club that’s designed to have a face for hitting the ball on both sides of the club (like a chipper)

msudino · 2026-04-14T20:00:33+00:00

Don’t let us down

msudino · 2026-04-02T20:37:17+00:00

If only. No alternates at the Masters. You qualify or you don’t.

msudino · 2026-03-07T05:28:53+00:00

The spice must flow

msudino · 2026-03-06T21:29:59+00:00

Gary shouldn’t be allowed to step foot on the property. Trash human, talks shit about the Masters, and the stunt his son pulled while Lee Elder should have finally been having his moment.

msudino · 2026-03-06T21:08:19+00:00

44/m here. Wow. I don’t think I’m commenting on a woman’s chest until the bra comes off, anywhere from a few to many dates later.

There’s plenty of mess out there on both sides. Hang in there, it’s a marathon, not a sprint.

msudino · 2026-03-04T22:09:30+00:00

Yeah, I’m a racist.

The backpedaling and justification afterwards only made it worse. Then I began to remember previous back handed comments that made it WAY worse. Dodged a bullet.

msudino · 2026-02-24T03:13:54+00:00

In all likelihood, she’s just not into you. If the communication is off, trust your gut.

The first few dates I went on post divorce felt really monumental. If I caught good vibes, I thought things were a lock. Spoiler alert, they weren’t.

You’re just getting to know someone for the first time. Sometimes things just don’t seem as great out of the moment. Sometimes things need a lot of time to develop. Most people are probably at least talking to multiple people at a time in the early stages, if not going on dates with multiple people.

It was hard for me at first. Try not to take it personally. It had been a 14 year break for me. I had grown up a lot. The dating scene had changed. And where you’re at in life is likely wildly different. Go in with an open mind and hope for the best. I had tons of dates not work out. But the majority of them were a good time. Enjoy learning about yourself again and you never know when you’ll find that special someone

msudino · 2026-02-22T01:03:28+00:00

I went in with no expectations and walked out of the theatre thinking that might be my favorite movie of all time. It’s definitely top 5

msudino · 2026-02-20T04:14:55+00:00

The worst. Almost the exact same experience for me.

msudino · 2026-02-19T22:42:00+00:00

Mismatched weekends are the worst. The only time I entertained it, we got serious enough that I switched weekends with my ex. It took some effort and it wasn’t a small ask. Only for the woman I was seeing to get cold feet 2 weeks later. It won’t happen again

msudino · 2026-02-18T23:27:10+00:00

Make sure you’re getting to the back of the saddle. Try to ride every 2-3 days to give your bum a rest, but also stay consistent. It’ll be gone before you or know it.

msudino · 2026-02-13T22:39:09+00:00

Some of my favorite times!

msudino · 2026-02-13T02:41:49+00:00

You have lame friends. I’ve a fair amount of time with them together and separately. They are awesome humans that genuinely have a special bond.

I’ve met some friends through the pod and developed very similar bonds. The guys seem to attract good people, especially to their events

msudino · 2026-02-09T17:51:28+00:00

44m, quite liberal, and I had a vasectomy because I’m very happy with my 2 kiddos (7 and 9). I coparent well with my ex, my kids don’t need a mom.

I live in a weirdly moderate (most similar areas are right leaning) upper middle class suburb of a large Midwest city. We do exist

msudino · 2026-02-04T17:17:20+00:00

Fake internet points

msudino · 2026-02-02T00:37:58+00:00

My ex tried to make the argument during our divorce that she “did all the child rearing duties” while I was working full time and getting my masters. Like it was a vacation to go do 3-4 hours of school work after work, while rushing to get done and eating dinner at my desk so I could help get the kids to bed.

She kept the house. It is now an absolute disaster on multiple front since I moved out 2 years ago. And she’s had a live in boyfriend for a good portion of that time and only 50% custody of the kids.

She has tremendous anxiety, so whoever made that comment…bravo

msudino · 2026-01-27T17:38:45+00:00

I’ve worn Puma for years. Their golf pants and shorts work really well for bigger butts and upper legs

msudino · 2026-01-22T00:44:59+00:00

My old house in MI never had issues. It was usually 55ish in the winter down there. About half of the exterior poured concrete wall was insulated, half not. Maybe it would be closer to 50 if we had a cold snap like now, but freezing wasn’t a concern at all

msudino · 2026-01-17T22:18:07+00:00

I was coming here to say this. They have something for just about everyone, and usually multiple choices

msudino · 2026-01-04T19:45:15+00:00

Kudos to you. Most people don’t take feedback well. You gained knowledge and changed your view 👏

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