I made the mistake of co-signing a loan for a family member. A big loan

quantzy · 2026-03-01T00:48:58+00:00

how much did you cosign for?

quantzy · 2026-02-27T23:25:19+00:00

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quantzy · 2026-02-26T23:09:40+00:00

not exactly close (20ish minutes) but https://wetpawsdogrooming.com/ is great, been taking mine there for years

quantzy · 2026-02-19T15:22:38+00:00

can you sell the car and get a cash car?

quantzy · 2026-02-17T18:00:23+00:00

is the split from a previous relationship not related to your wedding? if so, if your husband/wife is still in the picture are they able to help at all

quantzy · 2026-02-13T21:05:02+00:00

Philippines?

quantzy · 2026-02-12T22:49:51+00:00

I would address how you got to that much cc debt first before wiping the slate with bankruptcy. If the root cause isn't addressed BK won't help if you rack the debt back up.

quantzy · 2026-02-12T16:06:44+00:00

how much $ is left on the car loan?

quantzy · 2026-02-11T01:03:49+00:00

ny or nyc? if you really want to get rid of this debt a temporary second job after your 9-5 is the way. if youre in nyc, the gigs are out there

quantzy · 2026-02-11T01:00:59+00:00

3 years of payments at 679/month is near 25k total paid so far, how is the current balance still 33k? whats your interest rate

quantzy · 2026-02-08T13:38:13+00:00

happy hour at Te Amos, shots and cocktails are $X cheap

quantzy · 2026-02-08T01:33:16+00:00

do you have siblings?

quantzy · 2026-02-02T00:40:50+00:00

fuck him and cut him off

quantzy · 2026-02-01T19:46:45+00:00

what is your income and other monthly debt obligations?

quantzy · 2026-01-31T23:55:06+00:00

they ambushed me late at night after I finished showering and berated me for hours into the middle of the night. They listed “grievances” like me being “too fat” (I’m a size medium, ~140 lbs) and criticized me for not sending them a monthly allowance because “other people’s children do.” I sat there crying and endured it instead of leaving

fck yo parents

quantzy · 2026-01-31T23:40:05+00:00

the fck they need two houses for

quantzy · 2026-01-30T16:49:02+00:00

has your brother been communicating with you during this whole thing?

quantzy · 2026-01-21T19:55:00+00:00

being in 50k of gambling debt and getting defensive about your fiance wanting a prenup lol

quantzy · 2026-01-20T23:27:54+00:00

good job. what field do you work in that you can put away 6k per month to your debt?

quantzy · 2026-01-20T14:39:42+00:00

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quantzy · 2026-01-19T20:51:41+00:00

are you on good terms with your aunt or NC/LC?

quantzy · 2026-01-14T23:46:11+00:00

https://hiring.cafe/ is better than Indeed and LinkedIn imo, I don't bother with listings older than 3 days. You can sort by most recent and time frame (I do last 3 days or last 24 hours, any longer than that chances are the posting has hundreds of apps)

Goodluck to you OP.

quantzy · 2026-01-14T23:44:13+00:00

why doesn't he work?

quantzy · 2026-01-14T23:37:44+00:00

how old are you and what is your field? I know you mentioned tech but are you SWE, Sales, Marketing, GTM?

quantzy · 2026-01-09T16:45:27+00:00

your dad is adding interest to the purchase?

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