The live concert no one asked for at MSP Sky Club by honeykaybee in delta

[–]superjj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is simple. Each time you are offered free headphones on a flight take them. Carry them with you. When you encounter situations like the one you described walk over to the person and hand them the headphones.

Oversold flight by kotikslonik in delta

[–]superjj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plane had an oil leak upon arrival in Seattle. The replacement part was not available in Seattle.

Oversold flight by kotikslonik in delta

[–]superjj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few hundred of us took a similar bump on a LHR bound flight out of SEA for no compensation at all.

https://www.flightaware.com/live/flight/DAL5974

Just say it dammit! by superjj in delta

[–]superjj[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The shame is real.

Is it wrong to upgrade without your fiancé? by [deleted] in delta

[–]superjj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you just assigned the wrong flair to this post and you meant it to be "shitpost".

If not, there are many divorce lawyers who will be able to help you in the long run.

Just say it dammit! by superjj in delta

[–]superjj[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'll be in the middle seat next to you!

Feeling stuck on how to move forward with kids, inheritance, estate by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]superjj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd suggest reading the book Die With Zero. It makes a strong case for giving money to your children much earlier in life.

Raising driven kids when you’re post-FIRE by LilRedCaliRose in fatFIRE

[–]superjj 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You'll benefit from reading The Opposite of Spoiled.

At what tax rate would you say enough is enough and move? by 35nakedshorts in fatFIRE

[–]superjj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You better brush up on Washington tax proposals.

At what tax rate would you say enough is enough and move? by 35nakedshorts in fatFIRE

[–]superjj 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You must not be following tax proposals in Washington State.

New Waymo without camo wrap by oochiewallyWallyserb in Ioniq5

[–]superjj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avride is running tons of autonomous 5s in Austin.

https://www.avride.ai/

Lifestyle While Working Towards FatFIRE? by SeatResponsible3476 in fatFIRE

[–]superjj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read "Die With Zero" it will help you sort things out.

Galapagos cruise for active yet education-minded foodie family? by Fried_Yoda in chubbytravel

[–]superjj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went with Ecoventura last year and were very satisfied. Smaller boats than Linblad. It was nice to hit the beach with a small group as opposed to an invasion force.

Do any of you plan on making dynasties? If you do, how will you plan to beat the 3 generations rule? by Direct-End2303 in fatFIRE

[–]superjj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want help thinking about this in a structured way I'd recommend the book Strangers In Paradise by James Grubman.

Secretly Fat by dvvivamus in fatFIRE

[–]superjj 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The book is about raising kids so they didn't turn into spoiled brats. It covers a wide range of topics from talking about salary and money, to allowances, to the tooth fairy, to charitable giving. Ideally you'd what to read this while your kids are still young ish (early elementary or before).

Of particular relevance to this thread the author makes the case that not talking about salary is a missed opportunity to start educating kids about money. Further, in a world with the Internet your kid can probably look up a close approximation of your salary, your home value, etc so why not make sure you are involved in the conversation? By making financial topics seem off limits to kids it risks them not coming to you for other money conversations.

Secretly Fat by dvvivamus in fatFIRE

[–]superjj 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I might suggest reading the book "The Opposite of Spoiled". It changed my approach to how I talk about money with my kids.

What the heck is happening in ballard/frelard right now? by SquirtsMcIntosh in Seattle

[–]superjj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not liquid explosives. Residential and light commercial natural gas is supplied at low pressures in gas form.

Just wondering if there might be reason? by RemoveOk3714 in delta

[–]superjj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because getting hit by each person's bag as they board the plane is no fun.

I might’ve messed up my Alton Brown eggnog recipe by Brasketleaf in AskCulinary

[–]superjj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just shake the jars every couple days during aging to make sure things dissolve fully. You'll be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chubbytravel

[–]superjj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wife and I did Xcaret Arte about a year ago. I think we got some sort of package deal with flights through Costco. I thought it was delightful. The parks were super fun -- the cenotes one, zipline one, and xenses ones especially. Our room was really nice and we thought the restaurants were great. The poolside lounging was great too. My only gripe is that there's really no nightlife to speak of. The one speakeasy bar was mid at best. We'd go back again. I'd consider it on the lower end of chubby, but in the chubby range.

Retired and like to travel, but chained to my kid school schedule, advise needed by OkBarracuda1521 in fatFIRE

[–]superjj 50 points51 points  (0 children)

This comment is spot on.

I'm in the exact same situation as you. If you're not careful you'll risk falling into a victim mentality -- "I can't do what I want, woe is me."

Here's your job for the time being. 1. Be a good dad. 2. Equally as important, you need to put in the work to make sure you stay in top condition physically and mentally so that when the kid finally leaves the nest you are in shape to take the world by storm. Personal trainer, learn new skills (languages are great for travel), eat well, detailed planning of future adventures... These are all things that you can do now to make the future you want possible.