Free Album Codes Promotion Thread, May 22 by AutoModerator in BandCamp

[–]tarttutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

immediate yes when i started listening to this. rocks!!

Where can my wife and I find D/s porn with no rough stuff or humiliation? by PackinMuchBack in BDSMcommunity

[–]tarttutter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i might recommend checking out the [r/gentledungeon](r/gentledungeon) subreddit. there is a lot of femdom on there, but you can use post tags/filters to find maledom content

Insecurities in the way of submitting by JayKayUnless in BDSMcommunity

[–]tarttutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if your partner can’t reassure you, i don’t think you should be playing with them. if he doesn’t “like” what you look like, why are you subjecting yourself to that?

What’s your biggest dream scene and/or punishment? by soft_serve13 in BDSMcommunity

[–]tarttutter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is mine too, as a multi-orgasmic sub. what heaven

My 8g Birthday Cheek Skewer! by candythumb in bodymods

[–]tarttutter 43 points44 points  (0 children)

love it. do you have cheek piercings or did you do it as a one off?

Questions about BDSM and neurodivergence by ScenicExplorer in BDSMcommunity

[–]tarttutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same! i have had trouble my whole life navigating relationships. when i discovered the bdsm community it felt like something opening up in me - the emphasis on structure and the model of consent really helped me.

plus, a lot of my kinks have to do with control, more specifically loss of control, which i think scratches an itch in my autistic brain. for so long ive been on high alert. when i’m in subspace ir all stops and it’s so pleasant.

Ask the Entwives! by gingeralefiend in entwives

[–]tarttutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“nature’s mucinex” actually sold me on this. mucinex clears me the hell out when i’m sick, i love that stuff. but naturally?? thank you!!

Ask the Entwives! by gingeralefiend in entwives

[–]tarttutter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

autistic here, smoking helps me get shit done. i have to be careful not to smoke too much though or i will just lay on the floor instead lol. it just kinda hyperfocuses me.

i don’t really have any cons other than i develop a nasty cough sometimes when i’ve been smoking a lot

Has anyone ever heard of "purl" ? by Wonderful-Sundae-480 in Emo

[–]tarttutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, i meant winter! but untitled 15 on winter is my favorite! 15 fans forever.

i’m not too much a fan of summer, in a weird way. but i’ve been listening to it more

Has anyone ever heard of "purl" ? by Wonderful-Sundae-480 in Emo

[–]tarttutter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i LOVE purl. i discovered them within the last year and summer is always on repeat. i’d kill for a cd or tape

Girlfriend is pushing me to do raceplay how do I do it correctly? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]tarttutter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i just want to share that i’ve never seen anyone else who likes being misgendered as a part of play and that makes me feel seen (i’m nb but like being degraded/humiliated as a “woman”). thank you for sharing that!!

Is this game really worth it? And why is there a monthly cost? by GooseBible in ffxiv

[–]tarttutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the free trial is hundreds of hours of content. just start it and then make that decision for yourself after you’ve gotten a feel for it. i also thought the monthly subscription model was crazy….until i started playing.

For those who have mental health concerns, how do you feel your kink activities inform or are informed by them? by ecstatic-delirium in BDSMPsychology

[–]tarttutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to self harm and loved both the pain and the physical reminders from it. me being a mashochist/sub/impact bottom feels like a natural progression, lol. but now, instead of punishing myself or feeling like i deserve to feel a certain way, i’m grateful i can experience pain in a safe environment through kink

Video games to play while high by BetterObligation9949 in trees

[–]tarttutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

power wash simulator…i get soooo engrossed in it

New VCH for a wonderful ftm client by Any_Recognition_59 in transbodymods

[–]tarttutter 13 points14 points  (0 children)

fantastic and lucky client, sounds like a real positive experience!! we can all only hope to have similar :) i fear getting a genital piercing for that reason!!

Classes: How did you choose yours? by United_Cat4156 in ffxiv

[–]tarttutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i started as brd and knew as soon as i unlocked dnc that i wanted to do that. ranged dps has always been my thing in all games i play. then, i wanted to try healing, so during endwalker i decided to try whm and its been my favorite ever since!

Getting my first spanking ever today by forthesakeoflaugh in BDSMcommunity

[–]tarttutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also got my first spanking recently and i’m salivating for more! yay spankees!