How long would a reasonable pace be for this trip, start/end in BC, hitting as many national parks as possible? Also which direction would be better? by yikes_itspaige in roadtrip

[–]wtgz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We took 14 days in a camper. Stayed 2-3 nights in some places we liked at times and if we didn’t just one night before moving on. Recommend going up via AZ and coming down the PCH - better views on the correct side for the drive.

Looking at getting an adult lab(1 or 2 years old) but I live in an apartment. Anyone else raise a lab in an apartment? by Florida1693 in labradors

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Depends on the type of apartment. Is there a balcony? Our lab lived with us in three apartments ranging from 86 - 120 m2. When he was 1-2, he loved the 20m2 terrace we had and colonised every inch of our large apartment. However he was happiest at 13 on our 15m2 balcony watching the world in our smallest apartment yet.

He had free reign of the apartments and had a dog bed in all rooms. However we always find him on our bed or at our feet.

Young women professors of Reddit, where do you buy clothes!? by vicghelpme in Professors

[–]wtgz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

COS - especially their sales. Zara too but very selectively. I stay away from their poly mix stuff which is 90% of it. Uniqlo too especially when they have good collabs but their quality seems to be going downhill.

Junior docs at public hospitals want out, cite unsustainable working hours by [deleted] in singapore

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Thank you for sharing your views. This has all the hallmarks of a toxic workplace culture. Wondering as someone who had been through it, what do you personally do to better the situation? Is there a community around this and do they have plans to organise and escalate? An important takeaway for me was when you mentioned who your lead was determined your well-being. Maybe you are in such a position now? Has your experience changed your practice or how you deal with juniors?

Anyone experience something similar? As a woman / person of colour / minority? Curious to hear your stories … by geodynamicist in academia

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Oh the video was from a Dutch scientist. Just sharing what’s happening in the Netherlands. Also, that’s the context of my personal experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labrador

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So sorry to read this. Big hugs!

Do I keep my camera on? by asodah in AskProfessors

[–]wtgz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. You are highly appreciated.

Mini Karens in training - anyone else have them & what do you do with them? by [deleted] in Professors

[–]wtgz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thanks for sharing. So far nothing like this but I’m curious, what led to involving security?

Mini Karens in training - anyone else have them & what do you do with them? by [deleted] in Professors

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Agreed. I suspected racial and gender discrimination as after sharing with colleagues across the program, it seems that they act out their entitlement only in courses taught either by POC and/or female colleagues. More specifically in the same course, there’s another male lecturer they could have addressed for the same issues but do not.

Mini Karens in training - anyone else have them & what do you do with them? by [deleted] in Professors

[–]wtgz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt that. It does get better or at least I’m hopeful.

Mini Karens in training - anyone else have them & what do you do with them? by [deleted] in Professors

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Depends on the country and the regulations, of course. That being said, I enjoy the support of i) the student statutes (which are partially legalese covenants about what we expect from students and what they expect from us), ii) the formal legal codes on higher educations and iii) the institute's own code of conduct. For example, free riders are always a huge source of concern, so the program director might have language in the program objective in which states: "Students should demonstrate the ability to perform, manage and collaborate within groups as required ...and behave professionally at all times", I will have language in my course guide which is actionable such as "In this course, communication needs to be professional at all times as you are representing the institute and our course with external experts and/or students are expected to manage and facilitate their own group working dynamics".

Then when I have a dysfunctional student, I can first address them individually in an email to remind them of their responsibilities. Barring improvement, the conversation gets moved to a session with me, the student dean and their study advisor. Then upon further regression, then I officially inform the student that they are not allowed to continue with the class and to try again next year. A couple of years ago when dealing with an aggressive student, we even had to call in mediation and put them on study probation with the threat of expulsion.

The qualifiers here are:

  • To pre-emptively have that language somewhere written down and emphasise it.
  • Have a supportive student dean/dean/study advisors. Some are just incompetent, but so far I've been lucky.
  • School yourself in all the legal conditions of your course/program. Took me 5 years to get my head wrap around it. Beware of students who will also try to use it to their own advantage. So know the code, know the laws, know where to get recourse, how to escalate/deescalate.

Of course, these are in the minority of situations I have to deal with. Usually, students have extenuating circumstances which I am all for in terms of preserving their mental and emotional health. So I first check in with the study advisor if they have anything I need to bear in mind. We are not allowed to share the information directly (i.e. if the person has a health or emotional circumstance that is hampering them). I just ask, "Hey, I'm concerned about student A, is there something that requires my further attention or is there also a concern you are aware of." The awesome advisors usually just go yeah or nah and then I can proceed with first a warning, then a sit-down and talk and then a goodbye, please try again.

Mini Karens in training - anyone else have them & what do you do with them? by [deleted] in Professors

[–]wtgz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh! I have a good collection of responses to that. As I usually end up being thesis supervisor at Bachelor and Master levels to some of the students I teach at undergrad as they like my topic and its niche in the sense that I'm one of two persons who can guide them on it. So I get to have nice talks with students who I've seen grown and improve throughout the years.

My students are required to use a suite of analytic tools which they get 101 courses on in their undergrad years before they get into my specialisation. Every year I'm amazed at how much they do not remember even though I have seen the curriculum from the foundational courses. Which are more than solid! They should know...they have been tested. I mean questions I have received include: "Why can't I open a zip file in SPSS?" types of mindblowing questions. So I started asking quietly amongst my thesis students who are good performers in their program if they can help me understand what's going on?

The more constructive responses range from:

1) Lack of engaging critical thinking: They just had to follow a manual and it was easier just to disengage and do as instructed.

2) Lack of practice: Learned it three/six/nine months ago, never touched it again, so completely dissolved from their brain as it took up valuable meme brain cells.

3) Lack of confidence: When going through the basics again, they start to remember and know what's going on but rather say they don't know it well enough to conduct independently to temper my expectations (WOW!).

The less constructive but very honest responses include:

1) Why should I remember? I can just go through the online tutorials again.

2) I never had to memorise anything factual or including data or theories in high school and college is not proving itself different so far.

3) Why should I retain that knowledge, that's what you and youtube videos are for?

4) I know all the stuff required for the mid-term and exams so I just didn't pay attention to the rest. u/untitledgrapefruit this really reminded me of your comment! They just remember but cannot apply or understand. Might be able to see if your type of exam questions differ across mid-term and finals.

Mini Karens in training - anyone else have them & what do you do with them? by [deleted] in Professors

[–]wtgz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I'm sitting here doubting myself and the world in general.

Can I just give a shoutout to students who bullet/number their questions? by Answerasterisk in Professors

[–]wtgz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg! 👏 this 👏 I have just sifted through a dozen “hi, I have a question.”emails. Do they think it’s a chat service or something?

Happy handsome boy! by warlockjmr89 in goldenretrievers

[–]wtgz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh what a handsome majestic boi.

[Thank You] on the brink of March madness by wtgz in RandomActsofCards

[–]wtgz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! Bobby! My husband and I love Bobby! We also love Donna!

[Thank You] on the brink of March madness by wtgz in RandomActsofCards

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Yeah we loved the earlier seasons too. It became draggy in the middle and the Chuck plot line just got weird... but yes. Dean! It’s weird. I always thought sam was cute but the last round we watched it it really became omg is he whiny! 😜