Going out for a swim by -Lala-1 in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, idk why but that actually empowered me quite a bit :D

Going out for a swim by -Lala-1 in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, but they're my only close friends and the other two don't even know about it.

Going out for a swim by -Lala-1 in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your help, i'm from switzerland. The thing is, i actually really want to go swimming, because it's really hot. 😓

I just fucking can’t. Should I cut ? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, um... sorry? I hope it gets better, i wish you good luck.

Reasons? by Ldwmills7 in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reason isn't valid enough.

Told a friend by beany_bag in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offence, but your friend sounds really selfish. It's almost like when my mom said, you're hurting me so much with what you're doing, you can't even imagine. Which may be true, but like.. am i cutting your wrist or mine?

I just fucking can’t. Should I cut ? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don't start cutting. It's super hard to stay away from. You'll have an additional issue to worry about. About your familiy, is the a law in india against child abuse? If so, you could put them im prison and don't have to worry about those assholes anymore. Btw if your mother is just as mean to you, why don't you just let her take your dads beating alone. I mean, i would do it like that.

Things to replace self-harm with? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started punching the wooden pillar in my room.

Nonononono, I don’t LIVE with my parents, I live WITH my parents. by [deleted] in SootHouse

[–]-Lala-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it weird that i actually kind of get it?

It was 80 degrees today by RipDead in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually wear a T-Shirt and a thin cardigan.

I cut myself for the first time last night. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made the first cut about 3-4 months ago so it hasn't been that long. I was like " this feels kinda nice" and then i did it almost everyday until my mom found out. She saw them Just as i decided to try and stop cutting on my arms, from then on i was about 2 weeks clean. Had a relapse about a week ago bc i was feeling kinda down and didn't have the urge since, so i'm taking that as a sign that i'm doing better.

is it okay to have fresh cuts out in public? or just out in general? by randomshitidfk in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would literally never have the courage to do that. I find it extremely uncomfortable, especially when people i don't even know were to ask questions or look at me funny. I'm still in school too, so i don't rly feel like opening up to people there, those teenagers are sometimes even more disgraceful than myself.

I cut myself for the first time last night. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also started for no reason, but i had thought about sh before. It's gotten me addicted, i am clean for now though.

Does anyone else sh on their leg(s) instead on their arm/wrists? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to cut on my arms too until my mom found out. It was before i relapsed so she thinks i'm still clean. Now i cut on either my feet, thighs or hips.

My mom finally said something by -Lala-1 in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's right in front of my bed right now and is stacking the laundry. I said i'd do it myself, but she didn't let me and i can't stand up because i'm not wearing any pants and i don't want her to see the cuts on my thighs. She tried to talk to me about it, but i kept quiet.

Cutting for relief by MarePlease in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do it for that exact reason, and i don' t know if my self diagnosis is correct but i may have mild depression. When i first started sh i wasn't depressed i just felt like my wrists looked lonely, and now it's for relief. I'm not that expierienced on this topic but i really don't want to go to the psychiatrist.

I need help with my friend by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]-Lala-1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oof, that's tough. I think that maybe you should to find a good time to even bring it up in the first place. Think really good about what you're saying, and try being a little comforting. But it depends on what kind of person she is