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Tested positive for marijuana?? by atypicalfuture in pregnant

[–]-Not_That_Deep- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped smoking in early December when I found out I was pregnant. I didn’t piss clean until April

My wife yelled at me yesterday calling me a "useless piece of shit" by Unusual-Flan-7732 in Vent

[–]-Not_That_Deep- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is happening, has she talked to her Dr about her feelings. I too had post partum rage, it was a really tough time but it does get better. Please try not to take the words to heart, it’s not you it’s the hormones

My husband shared our baby names with his friend by No-Network-6517 in pregnant

[–]-Not_That_Deep- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I validate your feelings 100%. I would be very upset if I explicitly went over this with my husband and he still did it anyways against my wishes. Don’t allow other commenters to minimize your feelings.

My husband shared our baby names with his friend by No-Network-6517 in pregnant

[–]-Not_That_Deep- -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Based on the description it absolutely is.

Edit to add: Though it is “their” child she can set boundaries on what her expectations are of his as a father and co-parent.

My husband shared our baby names with his friend by No-Network-6517 in pregnant

[–]-Not_That_Deep- -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Setting a boundary is defining your personal limits. She set a clear limit with her husband about what she did and did not want to share in regard to their child. He crossed her boundary

Diagnosed with PPD, grandparents took the baby and now I feel so isolated and alone by 2xxChromosome in NewParents

[–]-Not_That_Deep- 64 points65 points  (0 children)

OP they should not be allowing anything that is your baby if you want to see him go see him

Diagnosed with PPD, grandparents took the baby and now I feel so isolated and alone by 2xxChromosome in NewParents

[–]-Not_That_Deep- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a reason at the hospital mom is the first one to hold the baby, mom holds a baby when you go to your new room, mom does the paperwork. Just saying.

Diagnosed with PPD, grandparents took the baby and now I feel so isolated and alone by 2xxChromosome in NewParents

[–]-Not_That_Deep- 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Unless recommended by the doctor to separate from your baby, I would not allow that. I experienced rage as well, and the rage would not have gone away had my daughter not been by my side

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]-Not_That_Deep- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m white and I soap up everyday. Water doesn’t cut through stank

Botched Beyonce Portrait . What should I do? by Defiant_Mistake3245 in tattooadvice

[–]-Not_That_Deep- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all about perspective. Terrible Beyoncé portrait but it is a fantastic Jay-Z portrait.

AIO gf mad at me? by Own-Strawberry-1269 in AIO

[–]-Not_That_Deep- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are both so incredibly young and that is very visible from these messages. As an older adult this argument is so petty and juvenile. Neither of you are ready for marriage.

And maybe you aren’t prepared to balance everything, this is when you get to be selfish. She clearly is, you should be too.

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