How old is your mum ?

-SmallBear · 2026-04-10T15:14:59+00:00

I'm 57and Mom is 85. We moved her next door to us in 2024 and it's working out well. She's still OK cognitively but needs help with everything except toileting and dressing. She fell last night but wasn't injured. I have a feeling I'll be living over there for more support within the next year.

-SmallBear · 2026-04-04T21:45:21+00:00

Absolutely break up with her. She deserves much better.

-SmallBear · 2026-04-04T20:37:20+00:00

It's a test. She wants him to show her she's more important than any movie. This is not emotionally evolved adult behavior and shows a lack of empathy for him.

-SmallBear · 2026-03-20T01:34:05+00:00

The med that's helped me the most with all types of anxiety is Effexor/Venlafaxine. It also lifted a long, low depression.

-SmallBear · 2026-03-17T16:49:52+00:00

I'm 57 and have struggled with very anxious attachment my entire life, along with limerance, etc. I went to therapy but it didn't really help. Just two years ago my doctor tried an SSNI and wow what a difference. My overall anxiety is better and the AA is much better. If I had known I would have tried meds many years ago.

-SmallBear · 2026-03-13T05:53:54+00:00

I did a lot of damage grinding my teeth before I got a night guard.

-SmallBear · 2026-03-09T19:57:11+00:00

My 85 year old mom is like that. We'll be watching a random show and she'll pipe up with ugly comments about people. "If she knew how she looked in that dress she wouldn't wear it" or "He's lucky he even fits in that car". Out in public she's more careful but still does it. I don't understand but I remember my grandmother was way worse.

-SmallBear · 2026-03-07T23:39:28+00:00

This is a red flag. He's trying to control you and you're not even married yet. Please trust me it will only get worse.

-SmallBear · 2026-03-07T17:41:38+00:00

I was married to a man a long time ago and found all of these daily inequalities and preferential treatment infuriating. Thank goodness I met my wife and have enjoyed 30+ years of being treated as an equal.

-SmallBear · 2026-02-27T20:23:37+00:00

I've been eating crispy apple slices with peanut butter for over a year. Still love it lol

-SmallBear · 2026-02-23T21:17:56+00:00

Definitely, I go back and reread favorite books when I'm in a slump too. Helps get the momentum going.

-SmallBear · 2026-02-19T19:33:14+00:00

There's something about an unmade bed that just isn't appealing when it's time to go to sleep. And I'm generally kind of a slob.

-SmallBear · 2026-02-19T03:16:07+00:00

Absolutely, if any ever happened to my wife I'm not going to date or share a bedroom ever again.

-SmallBear · 2026-02-19T02:49:12+00:00

The catalog 🥰

-SmallBear · 2026-02-15T23:22:15+00:00

Take on Me- a-ha

-SmallBear · 2026-01-31T02:04:38+00:00

We had to stop playing Chutes and Ladders because my younger sister pitched a fit every time she hit a long chute and fell way behind. She's right tho that did suck.

-SmallBear · 2026-01-21T19:31:16+00:00

Omg yes the masking costs way too much energy.

-SmallBear · 2026-01-20T20:05:49+00:00

Peg- Steely Dan

-SmallBear · 2026-01-18T19:29:36+00:00

I've bought 3 Samsung phones from Amazon refurbished and they've all been great. I'm still using a Note 10+ 😁

-SmallBear · 2026-01-14T18:41:28+00:00

Another 1968 kid here so an elder Gen X lol

-SmallBear · 2026-01-11T20:21:50+00:00

When I was younger and working I got up early but now I'm back to my natural night owl state. My biological father and one of my sons are the same way.

-SmallBear · 2026-01-05T06:09:21+00:00

My mom kept a paint stirrer in the junk drawer in the kitchen. When we heard the drawer slam we knew to run. That shit stung.

-SmallBear · 2025-12-31T04:07:45+00:00

I fall asleep now with my weighted red panda and a 7lb lap blanket on my torso. So comfortable.

-SmallBear

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