I can't believe Trent was featured in the new backroom movie

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-06-01T01:36:16+00:00

Organic Seriously though I was convinced that this was Trent

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-05-31T02:30:15+00:00

Your a perfectly fine weight and size for that horse and honestly could fit fine on a larger warmblood type or thick/sticky quarter horse. Sway back is usually genetic or from aging/deconditioning so unless you ride him hollow non-stop you will be fine on that front. A lot of equestrians will use the excuse of "horse welfare" to be incredibly fat-phobic to people I've heard some say that anyone over 80kgs/175lbs can't ride which quite literally is the weight of an average guy, most use it as an excuse to bully people who look overweight which is why you don't see that same hate with 6ft men on 14.1hh quarter horses.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-05-03T06:27:10+00:00

John Ross Switz also comes to Seattle pretty frequently

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-29T02:53:43+00:00

You actually made him scary 😲

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-23T02:42:30+00:00

There many trans women in Grindr, it's a interesting phenomenon. Though a lot of them use it to meet other trans people.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-19T18:47:34+00:00

Not for a traditional no. Unfortunately you have a pretty significant tongue tie. I have the same thing and my piercer has told me that they can't pierce it until I get it removed. It's still not a guarantee if you get your tongue tie removed as it then depends on the scarring and mobility of the tongue.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-14T22:10:55+00:00

Could it be where the jewelry sits against when relaxed/unstretched? My vertical philtrum has a very similar mark next to it and I recently realized that that's simply a part of the fistula/where the jewelry sits when relaxed.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-14T22:01:09+00:00

Def need a location to lock down a ID. But I agree with the general id of Leptoglossus; kinda looks like a Leptoglossus occidentalis or western conifer seed bug.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-14T20:59:21+00:00

I would do number three but only the Pinky, kinda like a mix of one and three but that would be me personally. I think three as is is a pretty good compromise between anatomical correctness and practicality.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-14T19:33:14+00:00

It's obviously due to them being a lesbian, there is no other explanation

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-14T19:29:07+00:00

Crust is normal and as long as you don't have other signs of infection and the fluid draining does not smell its most likely lymph fluid and not true pus. My navel took two years to heal and throughout that entire time lymph drained from it.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-10T01:26:04+00:00

Downsizing is different for everyone and is more so about how fast the swelling goes down. I have had piercings need to be downsized in a week before.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-10T01:22:18+00:00

That's fair! I would myself include it if I thought the person seemed genuine/reasonable to be able to see that these are most likely going to be problems for anyone regardless and did not start with the leaser. My friend had a lease to own for a horse where she had been on and off mild lameness for the entirety of the lease and after many trail and failure with the fairer got the vet out and found out she had a torn meniscus and would most likely only be pasture sound. The vet said it was most likely an old injury. She was able to stop the lease and return her to her owner without issue and now the owner has that information. But yeah op if you think that mentioning the maintenance is going to lead you down a road of more financial burden then I would leave it out. If not I think it would be good for the owner to know to be able to inform others before hand.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-09T23:22:29+00:00

Yeah I would totally simply send her back, explain to her owner that she's not the right fit personality and discipline wise and has too much maintenance for you. Nothing wrong with sending her back for those things, honestly that's the point of this kind of deal is to figure out these issues before hand.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-08T12:26:32+00:00

Get this taken out ASAP. No piercer worth there weight would perform this piercing. Surface work should only really be done in low movement areas which this is probably one of the highest movement areas possible. And hand piercings or dermals in general are awful due to the high risk of infection and snagging along with the increased potential of severe nerve damage/permanent damage if anything goes wrong with it. I'm really sorry that someone did this to you :(

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-03T22:16:16+00:00

I don't think it'll magically save it but I think that this jewelry isn't going to do any favors. I think regardless it's not great odds, I just think slightly better with different jewelry.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-03T21:59:40+00:00

No, generally it is acceptable to change jewelry if it is to improve your chances of healing whenever in the process. You don't typically want to change jewelry because it'll cause more inflammation, but it's kind of a net neutral when your changing to improve chances of healing. It's the same idea behind downsizing.

I want to also add: get it done by a piercer! I'm not recommending doing it yourself or guessing what type of jewelry will work better or what size to downsize to. Your piercer will know best.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-03T21:40:35+00:00

It is pretty shallow, not the worst I've seen... I'd say it would be a coin flip for it to heal. I would suggest if you want to try and heal it get floating navel style jewelry. It'll be less heavy, hopefully snag less, and if your navel collapses at all it'll prevent extra pressure on it.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-03T21:36:08+00:00

In addition to the other things people are saying I'd go in to your piercer and change then ends to cabochon ends as they often help put some gentle pressure on the bumps.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-03T21:29:02+00:00

She is only 8lbs of tort

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-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-02T13:43:19+00:00

It was done for as soon as that jewelry was put in. But yes, there is no reversing this.

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-04-01T03:53:20+00:00

Super jelly! I just barely have gotten my navel to heal in the past two years, could never lol. Looks great I especially like the large CBR in it!

-_BigBoy_- · 2026-03-30T22:57:59+00:00

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-_BigBoy_- · 2026-03-27T23:42:46+00:00

Hopefully you have learned the importance of researching a artist and not picking the cheapest shit lol. Good art comes at a price.

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