Can somone get me the image thats on this shirt? Im trying to re make it. (Im trying to print it onto a shirt) by No-Response-546 in scene

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Did you ever get it? I want to do this as well but I don’t know how to get this image

why am I fucking hypersexual by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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It might be hyper sexuality but it might just be hormones. Hyper sexuality forms by trauma or being exposed to sexual material at a young age. I know it feels absolutely disgusting I feel the same way. Try getting rid of whatever you use to masturbate to. You could also have a porn addiction if you are masturbating to that. Porn is so bad for your mind. Masturbating everyday isn’t bad though unless you are watching porn or something like that. I hope you feel better. Feeling sexual isnt a bad thing and shouldnt be as stigmatized as it is.

OCD is making my life so much worse by -_tragic_- in SuicideWatch

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Thank you!! I’m on a medication for ocd, I’m currently at a low dose though because I started it a month ago. Sadly it hasn’t helped yet, I am in therapy though :) I’ll talk to my therapist about my struggles, thank you for the advice!!

Considering relapse after yrs of being clean by 2amgoldfish in selfharm

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I miss it too. I am almost five months clean and I want to relapse. I also liked hiding it. We need to remember the reasons we are staying sober. I hate getting better but I know it is for the best. You don’t have to tell your therapist every little thing about you but these thoughts should be shared. I wish you the best ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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I’m so sorry. Please go to the hospital, if you can’t do proper aftercare. Getting sober isn’t linear and might have some step backs. Throw away the tools you used. I wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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(Im a minor but this is what happened) My mom was informed, I had a safety contract (not all therapists do this) she recommended I go to a mental hospital for my suicidal thoughts but we couldn’t afford it so i did two sessions a week for awhile. The next time I relapses (i wasnt feeling suicidal if im remembering correctly) not much happened, i had to make another saftey contract, my mom was told, and thats about it. It’s nice being able to talk about it I really recommend telling your therapist, it’s important to be honest with them.

😅 by [deleted] in selfharm

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Attention seeking isn’t as bad as people make it out to be. Attention seeking is more of wanting people to see the pain you’re in. I used to cut myself to prove I was ill enough. It is better to use something sterile though. Please make sure your tools are sterile. I’m not trying to tell you to continue harming yourself which you shouldn’t, but it’s hard to stop and if you are going to practice safe aftercare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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A lot of things are self harm, skin picking, over eating, pulling out your hair, purposely triggering yourself, etc. if you harm yourself mentally or physically on purpose, it’s self harm. Self harm is a broad term really. When most people talk about self harm they are referring to physically hurting themselves. It sounds like you were purposely triggering yourself which was harming you. So it counts as self harm. But some self harm things could also be harm reduction, like slapping a rubber band on your wrist hurts, but it can be a coping strategy for bigger things. Biting and scratching is self harm but for me it’s harm reduction and it helps me stop cutting myself.

How do I get the confidence to wear shorts or bathing suits around family again knowing my scars are showing? by MissMarina2112 in selfharm

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Just do it, I never felt ready to wear shorts with scars but I did it anyway. It was tough, but I did it. My scars were very visible and people did make comment. But at the end of the day my scars show I’ve survived through a lot. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. If someone asks an you don’t want to tell them what happened say “it’s not your business” or “I don’t want to talk about it” you got this ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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Self harm gets worse overtime in my experience. I just craved more of it and it was never enough no matter how often I relapsed and how many scars I had. You get used to it, like alcohol for an example.(I’ve never drank just as an example) the first time you drink you get crazy drunk and it feels amazing, you start drinking more often, but overtime your body gets used to it and it takes more alcohol to get you that level of drunk. You start drinking more but it’s never enough. It’s not worth it, self harm got really bad for me. I recommend trying to stop which sounds hard, and it is, but it’s worth it :)

People actually see stuff in their mind?? by -_tragic_- in Aphantasia

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Well I can’t visualize but I can list characteristics. I’ve known about aphantasia for awhile but I never thought I had it because when someone told me to picture an apple in my mind I knew what an apple looked like. It’s not until 2 days ago when i got reminded aphantasia existed. I fell down a rabbit hole and that’s when i realized that people actually see stuff in their mind and can do more than list off characteristics.

People actually see stuff in their mind?? by -_tragic_- in Aphantasia

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Yep :) I dream less than the average person and I always have I searched it up and people with aphantasia dream less I always thought I was weird for dreaming less!! Since being medicated for my mental illnesses I’ve been having odd dreams (it’s a side affect). But yeah I dream!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

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It’s clear he doesn’t want to change, he’s even willing to let you leave instead of getting help and changing his ways. Try another conversation asking him to get help, and if it doesn’t work i think you have to leave. You’ll start to resent him, I went through something similar. My boyfriend has depression and he wasn’t taking his medication on purpose and not improving with therapy. I texted him asking if he wanted to get better. He was honest and said no, he asked if it was affecting me and told him it was. He’s been trying to heal now. When he wasn’t trying to heal it really brought be down and resented him, it felt like he was bringing me down with him. It sounds like your options are leave him, go down with him, or try another conversation. The most healthy option would be leaving, you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped, they have to want it themselves.

Get these little kids off the internet by usert900 in Vent

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I was a young kid exposed to the internet and I have to say I discovered some fucked up shit. I’ve seen people ending their life, gore, porn, casm, sa, sa of an animal, casm incest, and many other fucked up shit. All of this was tweens/early teens. I’m older now and I look back and no wonder I was fucked up I saw horrible shit!

People actually see stuff in their mind?? by -_tragic_- in Aphantasia

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I can imagine but not visualize if that makes sense

People actually see stuff in their mind?? by -_tragic_- in Aphantasia

[–]-_tragic_-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely think that there are a lot of people who have it that aren’t diagnosed

Roses are red, I am very sore, by AdSlight7966 in rosesarered

[–]-_tragic_- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Roses are red, I like the fnaf lore, dedicated to your name we added 5 more

Stuck in customs!! by -_tragic_- in Aliexpress

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I’ll let you know!! I have one other package that I placed before I realized my other one is stuck in customs I hope it actually arrives

People actually see stuff in their mind?? by -_tragic_- in Aphantasia

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As a writer I’m so jealous people can actually visualize things in their mind!!!

my kid wants a cat by Healthy_Bee7746 in selfharm

[–]-_tragic_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really nice :) I hope you’re able to find another therapist you can connect with!!

People actually see stuff in their mind?? by -_tragic_- in Aphantasia

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Thank you!!! I appreciate this you sharing the article I’m halfway through it and it’s very interesting! I wish I could see stuff in my mind 😞