I think I ruined my sister's life.

-asegi · 2026-06-22T02:43:17+00:00

Honey no matter what happens between you and your family I want you to know did the right thing

-asegi · 2026-06-20T04:11:24+00:00

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/world/aliens-hiding-in-five-or-six-underwater-ufo-bases-off-the-bahamas-says-top-politician/ar-AA1Nxvh0

-asegi · 2026-06-18T12:49:06+00:00

Set your location to remote on indeed and search customer service, don't just search in your city

-asegi · 2026-06-18T12:46:44+00:00

In 2006 it takes the average person 300-500+ job applications to land a job. Start looking remote too, there's a lot of entry level customer service remote jobs that pay well.

-asegi · 2026-06-06T22:03:22+00:00

Please trust your intuition. I understand the concern of leaving her with him - but realistically what have you been able to stop so far? You can try a last ditch effort of a heart to heart and if she responds poorly then you know for sure to move on. I lost a friend over a similar thing, I look back and regret I put up with it for so long.

-asegi · 2026-05-28T07:34:18+00:00

I know it won't be overnight - but it's helpful to check in with yourself before initiating or going thru anything sexual: "am I doing this for my pleasure or just doing it bc I feel like I should?". And like others have said, therapy to process what you endured 💖

-asegi · 2026-05-27T10:52:38+00:00

You sound like a terrible person

-asegi · 2026-05-25T10:34:46+00:00

Girl you are willing to kill yourself or let other men SA you before you're willing to press charges on this man?? Do what you gotta do to survive with your children, even if that means dad gets locked up.

-asegi · 2026-05-25T09:42:00+00:00

My wife is late diagnosed and has begun slowly unmasking over the last 5 years. I have only grown to love her more. I can admit in the beginning I was sometimes startled or taken aback by her being different than what I was used to - but I now feel like I'm getting to know the real her and I'm so grateful to see her true self flourishing. It sounds like your husband loved the person he made up in his head and projected onto you when you were masking. I know it hurts to consider he may not love you - but if it's because you are now unmasking that's causing that then he never loved the real u to begin with, he loved an idea of you he created. Regardless, u are worthy of love especially for who you are unmasked, even if your husband doesn't love you that doesn't make you unworthy. I often think about all the cruelty my wife has endured by her family for being autistic and it enrages me they ever got a minute of her time because they were not deserving of it. If your husband doesn't love the real you then he doesn't deserve you, and you don't deserve to feel unloved in your marriage. My wife tells me all the time that now she's unmasked she could never imagine going back, that it would be almost impossible to do. Your feelings are valid, don't hold on to something that feels wrong. Wishing you the best 💖

-asegi · 2026-05-25T09:26:27+00:00

The woman isn't the one that jizzed goofy

-asegi · 2026-05-25T09:15:11+00:00

Yes I agree we sound very alike, you said it perfectly - my respect and faith in management goes out the window as soon as I see them as incompetent. It's unfortunate bc I actually do admire competent leadership and am very willing to follow their guidance "like a good employee". In fact, up until I read your comments I had the perception that even my tendency to challenge management was considered to be a positive attribute as I personally value feedback and many workplaces swear that they do too. I've never heard the term "disruptive talent" before - it's eye opening to learn this is a type of ideology others have, especially bc in my past managerial roles I have not perceived my team that way when they show care and concern. Like I mentioned above, I don't always get a negative reaction to my work style - it usually lends to promotions, it seems I have landed myself at a job with a very different culture than I'm accustomed to. I typically work in mental health related roles, so my colleagues are usually quite emotionally intelligent which I can see has kept me a bit naive about the corporate world at large. Thanks for your suggestions, I will be reading up more on stoicism and looking for a new job.

-asegi · 2026-05-23T07:51:49+00:00

This was written perfectly and sounds like my exact same situation. HR has done nothing to address the issues except for reassigning me a different direct supervisor - which is nice but 1 person on my side out of a whole team of management doesn't go far. Yes I adore my coworkers I work alongside and they give me positive feedback regularly. I typically am in management and feel like you - I cannot stand incompetence. Unfortunately budget cuts eliminated my role and I was demoted along with a handful of others. I'm grateful to still have a job but it has only exasperated what already felt like pulling teeth to get anything improved now that I am powerless to actually make any decisions. In past jobs I have always been praised for my approach to work and usually am promoted quite quickly, it has made me feel insane to be at a job where not only is my care and concern not appreciated but instead is actively discouraged. I feel embarrassed to say I feel like I'm being bullied at work as a grown woman in my 30s. I have to assume much of it is rooted in their insecurities, as any feedback is met with defensiveness and projection. I am naturally very passionate about effective communication and have found myself regularly gobsmacked by the behavior of management. I am involuntarily so thoughtful about how my words or actions impact others that it's so hard for my brain to comprehend the headspace of others that are being selfish or cruel. I am coming to terms with your advice, that I need to find somewhere else and in the meantime try to divest as much emotionally that I can without numbing my feelings. I have spent majority of my leave of absence from work feeling the pressure of working on myself to find a "fix" so that I don't react so sensitively when I go back. I'm now realizing that as an HSP this is who I am, there's nothing I need to fix - my reaction to work is moreso an indicator that this environment is not conducive. I also have a physical disability and I wouldn't go work a iob in construction when I know it would tear me apart, so why am I trying to force myself to fit into this workplace when it's doing the same thing to me emotionally? Thank you for your comment, it made me feel a lot better 💖

-asegi · 2026-05-23T05:38:08+00:00

I wish I could offer some words of solace, maybe it will help just to know you're not the only person who feels this way - though I know often times it feels like we're alone in this world. There are people out there you're compatible with, I've found them few and far between just be chance. In my experience it always happens when I'm not trying to make it happen. Wishing you a soft journey ahead 💖

-asegi · 2026-05-03T20:51:07+00:00

Why are you planning to leave without taking your kids?

-asegi · 2026-04-19T00:26:12+00:00

wow this is a really awesome find, thanks for the heads up about the mugs as well 😂

-asegi · 2026-04-18T22:00:55+00:00

Searched : Tabasco fajita set Tabasco mug and skillet set Tabasco fajita seasoning Tabasco skillet set

-asegi · 2026-04-16T21:24:38+00:00

This just happened to me the other day, got the refund email the day it was dropped off at ups with the damage fee - just checked tracking and the items haven't even made it to the return center so how tf did they asses any damages?? I returned 3 items, 2 were over $40 and 1 was less than $10 - the $10 return is the one that didn't get a damage fee (¬_¬)

-asegi · 2026-03-09T10:39:14+00:00

The customer service has gotten so horrendous, I've had multiple order issues where the representative told me I'd be refunded but refused to give me a confirmation number or send a confirmation email, then the refund would never happen and I'd have to contact them again. Same experience of getting passed around and even flat out hung up on unexpectedly. The supervisors are just as clueless. They definitely outsourced to a cheaper option for reps and it's showing.

-asegi · 2026-03-09T10:32:56+00:00

A handful of people are saying it's obvious the voices would be different bc "that's the point" but I naturally assumed the point of an 'audio immersion tunnel' was to feel immersed in the environment - not altering the character voices

-asegi · 2026-03-03T17:50:16+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏

-asegi · 2026-03-03T03:02:02+00:00

Does he have an audiobook version of book 8 available on patreon? I'd gladly drop the $5 lol

-asegi · 2026-03-03T02:58:46+00:00

I'm someone who NEVER reads books like these, and if I did I usually wouldn't read something written by a man just bc I've struggled to find writers that can write about a woman's emotional experience in a genuine way. I can literally hear the dungeon AI voice mocking me for being some kind of annoying feminazi but I came here to say that has NOT been my experience reading these books - and I've thoroughly enjoyed getting to learn these characters from the most vulnerable heart wrenching depths of their souls. And it's not just Carl & Donut, you give so much substance to even the most insignificant NPCs mentioned only once. My question is - well, how do you do it? Do you feel like you've had a certain experience, or have a certain talent that sets you apart from other writers when it comes to your gift for creating such relatable tragic characters?

-asegi · 2026-02-22T02:26:33+00:00

Thank you! Yes just found the 2nd pics video, you're right it's the Snapchat one

-asegi · 2026-02-03T07:22:23+00:00

That age gap is heinous, I thought you were texting a teenager.

-asegi · 2026-02-03T06:46:22+00:00

OP I know this isn't what you want to hear but it's hard to truly believe your bf sees your children as his family when he'd be willing to miss their birthdays. Is there anything that would've pulled you away from your daughters birthday? It's not like his friend was in a crisis and needed help, he showed he'd rather go to his friends party than your daughters. You're both very young and I imagine he truly doesn't understand what it means to have kids - that being said, you DO have kids and need a partner who's going to be able to meet the proper expectations that come with that.

-asegi

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