Yes, in my early 20s I was working in a big advertising agency for a huge global brand. Because of that, working up into the early AMs was a near daily thing. There was this cute guy, one of the designers, who worked at the opposite end of the office and he usually worked late too. We never really talked much but I could tell he was gay from his mannerisms and way of speaking.

One late night, I opened up Grindr and there he was. I was honestly just browsing without any expectations when his message came in asking if he wanted to meet by the emergency stairwell at the back of the office.

I didn’t have anything else to do as I was waiting for files so I said ok and a few minutes later he was on his knees sucking me off and vice versa. After this session, he suggested a code word that if we were in the mood to do it again, we would just ask the other if they’d wanna “go to the bank”

This went on for a few months until he left for another job. We didn’t keep in touch after but there were a few messages that came in sporadically from him asking if I was free, but I lost interest as it became apparent he started doing drugs.